Can someone interpret my dream...?

Question

It started out that I made friends with someone and then his wife died...we got very close and began seeing each other even though his family didn't like me,I went to swim in their indoor pool and it was the pool where I use to go when I was a kid, I jumped in and almost drowned...then all of a sudden it's another senario in the same house( a mansion of some sort) and I'm being friends with a girl I know I've met but can't remember and I watch and she gets married to my now boyfriend in real life and it's cool until I realize we are not going to share his love but he wants her to make love to him and for me to leave.I walk out the door but in the dream I keep seeing them places and getting angry with them, then she has his baby and I'm furious that he loves her baby and not ours so I fling it in it's carrier over a cobblestone bridge,we go look and there's nothing in the carrier.I then corner him and ask if he's in love with her and he said, sometimes.Then I say you'll be back.the end

Answer 1

how long was you asleep for. 2weeks

Answer 2

Don't know about all of it but I think the girl you know you,ve met but can't remember, is yourself.( In a way you've lost your true self growing up., as we all do to some extent) You see that your boyfriend wants to make love to her (the real you) and wants you to leave (the unauthentic you) So your subconscious is telling you to be your real self. I think the pool represents the pool of unresolved issues from the past, probably much from childhood. (Because it was the pool where you used to go as a kid.) The fact that you nearly drowned shows the fear of dipping into these issues The bit about you walking out the door and keeping on seeing them together sounds as if you don't want to deal with your past unresolved issues. You want him to take you as you are now but nothing will come of it (the empty carrier when you got hold of it!) Your subconscious knows you need to deal with stuff you're avoiding, then you can be happy. Suggest you find a trusted friend or counsellor who can guide you. And remember you only ALMOST drowned. You actually survived, so your investigations aren't going to kill you! Good luck.

Answer 3

wow- this is a complicated dream- well done for remembering it all!
First, death in a dream means a beginning and not an end- so I think the friendship thing is about trying something new, even though some people may disapprove and you have doubts about it.
Almost drowning signals a rebirth- again there is cahnge in your life you are unsure of.
The mansion signifies your life and all its possibilities, and the thing with your boyfriend is the idea of freedom- you are not sure if you really want it, and again the baby in the bag signifies that you are uncertain about the changes taking place.
The issue of the boyfriend and his love I think means that even though you may be willing to change and take risks- there will always be a stable influence in your life. That influence is your own self-awareness and self-belief which comes across very clearly to me in this dream.
So what ever happens you will be ok- keep noticing your dreams -
they are your messages to yourself offering reassurance and hope.
Good luck- hope this helps!

Answer 4

Yes, you can! Write a list of each noun, or depending on how much time you wish to spend and how in depth you want to go, each "important" noun(the ones that seem to stand out the most to you). Next for each word written down write three single word descriptions. Just go for the first three words that come to mind for each. Fold the paper so that you can only see your descriptions. Now take a few minutes for a break and during this time put your dream completely out of your mind. When you look back at your descriptive word let your mind wander until it comes upon a situation in your life in which the descriptive words fall into place to describe perfectly that which you may not be consciously aware of. Your sub-conscious is trying to speak to you.

Answer 5

The dream seems to point to your insecurity of your current relationship. It may be your insecurity or an instinct that your partner is actually cheating. The drowning shows that you are struggling with your worry and concern on the relationship. The first part of the dream points to what your desires look for in playing out a perfect relationship. The second scenario points to your worry of your current relationship. Is he cheating or is he faithful? Try cheaters.com and find out? Be careful to not take your anger to far; as taking it out on an innocent, will lead to destruction of ones self; referring to the baby over the bridge... It would be better to walk away, and get over the past relationship; as you will eventually find your soul-mate. Hope this helps... have a good'en and God bless!

Answer 6

The dream seems to signal a very emotional situation of competing with another female/ other females, irrespective of their actual presence in your life and the level of threat they represent to your relationship. Almost drowning indicates that you are quite deeply submerged in the pain of the situation. You are feeling very insecure due to the wounds of previous relationships/ childhood experiences (of being abandoned). You might be sensing that something wrong is happening between the two of you. Something in his behavior or in the circumstances triggered this painful feeling in you. Now you feel that your very value is at stake. You are afraid you are not as good as other women are. And your relationship in real life seems to be actually threatened - you thought there was a baby, but you find nothing in the carrier. Your intuition/ unconscious may be warning you of dramatic underwater currents in both your internal and external personal situation.

Answer 7

In a way it seems that you are avoiding your present relationship. By rebounding with the widow you may want a more mature relationship. Your boyfriend moved on with your friend, but you realize their relationship is what you wanted. The drowning is a sign that you feel overwhelmed. You realize your mistakes too late. Try to analyze your real relationship.

Answer 8

Basically, you drowned when u fell in, you sorta was conciously thinking about your b/f when that girl went out with him, and u want him back, and u ask him if he likes her and he says sometimes. So you tell him you'll want me back and you wake up from the dream.

Answer 9

it sounds to me that you have difficulties and personal conflicts. your obviously having second thought about your "now boy friend". maybe it's a trust issue. and it also seems as though you are having trust issue with a good friend yours. it could be a call for a desire to change. your relationship might not be as solid as it seems.
since you killed the child sorrow and failure is a result of that.

btw good luck!

Answer 10

All it means is you're uncomfortable with your current relationship. The details don't matter because you imagined them.

Answer 11

it means sweet F.A. I'm afraid=but tx 4 2 pts