Why is it that after a girl has lost her virginity, she doesnt keep those same values and gives it up eaiser, without making the man wait as long as her 1st time, and even have one night stands?
2006-06-09 02:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by Juicy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe because they feel they have nothing to save for, they already gave their virginity and thats it, you can only loose it once. There isn't that fear of loosing it anymore once it's gone. But if girls made guys wait longer every time they would be better off, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
2006-06-09 02:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At first I felt like you sad, like I wasn't the same person, and I haven't the same values. But with time I understand that loosing virginity is not a big thing, I thought that no one would love me anymore, but no. I have a relationship now with my best friend, we love each other and we;re going to live together, I thought that he would think bad for me, but no... he loves me so much that the fact that I wasn't virgin wasn't a problem.
But is true, that when you're not virgin you don't let the man to wait so much
2006-06-09 09:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that loosing your virginity changes your values or causes you to be easy. The first time with having sex is very nervous as you do not really know what to expect, do or even how it will make you feel. The second time the nerves are not there with above as you are now more aware of what it is about. The nerves still remain with the first time with someone new.
2006-06-09 09:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by tantiprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not the same for all girls. I was brought up to wait for the one, and I did that and am still with him 10 years on. I know what you mean about them being easier though. It's the way things are these days. Once they've lost their virginity and know what sex is all about and they like it, it makes them want it more.
(in the voice of forrest gump): My momma always says sex is like a box of pringles..... once you pop, you can't stop!
2006-06-09 09:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree from a previous comment, they don't have anything to lose anymore. some, not all girls are like this. I would say the majority are though.
2006-06-09 09:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by kubuckioriginal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what you mean. I don't treat women that are still virgins different then the ones are are not.
2006-06-09 09:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause she feels she doesn't have anything to lose.
And I think part of it is being scared/nervous doing it the first time.
2006-06-09 09:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by jaredkbyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are like that, don't generalize that.
2006-06-09 09:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Eudora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋