i love my hubby so much and i dont know if it is ok to like someone and you know he likes you too.. and he asked me to hang out with him but i told him "NO".. and he told me he understand my situation being married.. im happy with my hubby he gave me a better life and i dont wanna go somebody else and not sure if my life would even better..... what would you do if you're on my situation.....
2006-06-09 02:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by island_gurl731 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
being friends with other men is okay, one can not have too many friends..it just when you cross that invisible line that disaster strikes.
2006-06-09 02:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your situation sort of....but we all must remember that the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence. What would happen if you left your hubby and found that this new guy wasn't any better, then you are alone right. Who wants that? Please try to stay faithful and forget this other guy. Best wishes
2006-06-09 02:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's wrong, first of all you made a commitment when you got married. Liking someone else shows that your not truly in love with your hubby as much as you think you are. you need to stay committed to your hubby like you promised because that's messed up to him when he comes home and sees you stressing. Trust me liking someone else while being married is completely wrong.........and plus you promised in front of GOD!........
2006-06-09 02:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Carmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where u r, u've done the right thing. u have no committment from the other guy, and your poor hubby has done nothing to deserve you doubting your current relationship. you're probably just enjoying the attention from a new source.... spice up your own relationship and cut the other guy off!!! think about it, he knows u'r married but he asked u out - what makes u think that if u left your hubby for him, he wouldn't be asking other people out?
2006-06-09 02:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having friends is just fine but wondering if your life would be better with somebody else is just going to get you in trouble. Your husband sounds like he has dedicated his life to you and you need to do the same.
2006-06-09 02:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by willinkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are referring to liking as a friend then no there is nothing wrong with this but if you are talking about liking them more than a friend then yes there is something wrong with this. If you are going to hang out with this person then be up front with your husband as his feelings do count. If he has no problem with this then be friends with this person but be very aware if this friendship changes in anyway else you might lose your husband.
2006-06-09 02:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, there is nothing wrong in liking someone else. But from ur letter, it is not apparent that YOU like the guy, in fact u say that he likes u. B sure of ur feelings. U love ur husband, so there is no need to feel guilty. There is no sin in making a friend. GOD BLESS U
2006-06-09 02:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a tough one, just don't see the guy with out your husband with you. remember why you fell in love with your husband in the first place and know that you made a choice to love him and only him, however if you feel that you can' t be faithful to him you should get a divorce rather then cheat. its up to you really. but if i was in you place( im married) i would just not see the guy and tell my husband how much i love him. hope this helps.
2006-06-09 02:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really LOVE your husband,who given you a better life and he loves you ,so why even think about other man.You can hurt your hubby so much if he finds out,don't be stupid.How you can hurt someone who love you so much.Other hands adultery is sin ,against God.
2006-06-09 02:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you and hubby are happy then you have to be strong enough to not be tempted.
if you are tempted and actually do something then on your own head be it!
A case of 'the grass is always greener on the other side' me thinks.
2006-06-09 02:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by fluffycloud_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendship with this guy will lead to you cheating on your husband. If you have a good man why would you want to start something that might destroy everything you have and love.
2006-06-09 02:20:22 · answer #11 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋