He never ever let me use his computer,even when his home and leave the room for 2-3 minuts he always lock his computer.He say he is not cheating on me,but I am not sure.Any suggestions?
2006-06-09 02:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TAKE HIM FOR HIS WORDS.
The only sign that a spouse is cheating is when he/she becomes cold and seems to be lying a lot.
JUST BE A GOOD WIFE (sexy, presentable, decent, smart, skillful, etc.) and pray for your husband that God will protect him from being tempted by other ladies out their.
I wish you a happy marriage.
2006-06-09 02:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he trusts you then there is no reason to password protect the computer. Pay attention to any other things that have changed with his routine etc.
Has he always been like this or did it start recently, has he always put the password on there? If so, I'd say he's either chatting to other women online, chatting to men online, or looking at or downloading porn!!!!!
2006-06-09 09:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have your own computer then you wouldn't need to use his computer unless yours was broken. Maybe he has very sensitive files on their and he is afraid you might accidentally delete one. I would say he has something there he doesn't want you to get your hands on and I feel that if he has nothing to hide then there is no need to have his computer password protected, he just needs to tell you which files not to touch because maybe they can not be replaced.
Ask your husband to allow you on his computer if he has nothing to hide or to tell you why you can't, if he can't give you a reasonable answer then he is hiding something from you.
2006-06-09 09:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't put up with that. If he says he's not cheating tell him to prove it to you. There should not be a password on his computer if he has nothing to hide. How would he feel if you had one on yours??? I wish the best for you. Good luck.
2006-06-09 09:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by CoffeeChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same thing,trust me i got my husband's password and he was up to no good!not so much cheating just trying to be something his not!good luck i found my husband would rather be on his computer than on me!
2006-06-09 09:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by susan m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings a bit fishy here- He's Probably looking @ porn.
If he has nothing to hide then there shouldn't be a password.
Ask him why he does it and tell him that you need to use it too.
2006-06-09 09:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by bigbrother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop worrying about it, you won't be able to change it anyhow. Some guys are more private than others...respect his privacy. Best wishes
2006-06-09 09:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs privacy. Don't worry unless you notice other signs.
2006-06-09 09:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him!!!God knows everything..Let his privacy be given and always pray
2006-06-09 09:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by sky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have a lover that sends him mail. she may be younger than you.
2006-06-12 06:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by cowsformeatandmilk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋