My wife and I have been seperated for the last 4 years. We know we will never get back together but there is always some unspoken sexual tension between us. Should I pursure it?
2006-06-09 01:59:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will never heal emotionally from the breakup if you continue to have sex with her. I presume that at some point in the future, you will want to have a new intimate partner. Well, as long as you're dragging your ex's baggage around, you'll find that difficult.
When a relationship is over, it's best to let it be over so that you can let the wound begin to heal. Like a scab that you constantly pick at with your fingernails, that emotional wound won't ever heal if you pursue sex with the ex.
2006-06-09 02:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Doom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you both think you could never get back together? When it comes to love, never say never. It is obvious you both still feel something for each other and it is mutual, i wouldn't be against your coming back together.
You didn't say whether you have both now remarried though, if both have, then it would not be right.
2006-06-09 11:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Murphy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose? She was your wife and all so it can't hurt unless you think it would emotionally if it was a flop.
2006-06-09 09:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not pursue it at all! Let her go and divorce her!
2006-06-09 09:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just move on and you'll find someone else
2006-06-09 09:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by JoJOo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it might help salvage things.
2006-06-09 09:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no body else involved... why not!?!?!
2006-06-09 09:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by aam112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋