i have a friend who is great..but sometimes se just pisses me off..when we have got to do projects together she gives ALL sorts of reasons to get out of i..i feel it isnt fair...but other than that she's fine..i have a feeling that although being my best friend, she keeps some secrets to herself..she purposey gets very close to my other friend, and it just makes me jealous.sometimes i feel i should talk to her but i do not know whether she's doing all this knowingly..what should i do?
2006-06-09 01:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by hI TheRe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you r wrong...
2006-06-09 05:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing to do is to talk with her and let her know how you feel. If your friends she will understand and try to correct it or she may give you something she doesn't like about you. Then you both compromise. If she is really your friend she will value your friendship enough to at least listen. If shes not then your better off anyway.
2006-06-09 08:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Dark One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have to be really blunt with people you care about or they will just blow you off. tell her shes starting to piss you off always trying to get out of stuff, she what she says. she might not realize its bothering you. also she probably just wants attention and that is why her buddy-ing up to your other friend. or you could just want attention?
2006-06-09 09:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by denetta d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! I think you shouldn't worried. Just tell her your feelings. If she is really your best friend then she can understand.
Good luck
2006-06-09 08:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Enkhtur N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-09 09:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by Elenora M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. You must not also keep your feelings to her. You must tell her what you feel if you r really her friend.
2006-06-09 08:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Shanen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREATH.........
Now she does't want to help with assignments cause she has no idea!!!
EVERYONE keeps secrets to themselves!!!!!!!!!!
And maybe she's getting close to your other friend on purpose to make you jealous!!!!
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Now you just have to find out why?
2006-06-09 09:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her and say hey i got to talk to u. its inportant. if she doenst come grab her and make her come. talk it out and c if she has bein lying to u or telling the truth to u this hoile time.
2006-06-09 09:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by crunk_monkey2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if this is a personality quirk or if she is manipulating you to her own ends.
2006-06-09 08:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st stay calm. dont be doubtful on ur best friend. talk to her openly. it will clear more doubts on your mind.
2006-06-09 08:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by sweety pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet ur american, if she is ur best friend and she is only annoying some times just 4get about it,
2006-06-09 08:51:14 · answer #11 · answered by jimmythebullstromboni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋