2006-06-09 01:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you wasted almost two years so i say you just tell her and stop wasting time. just tell her that you have feelings for her and what does she think about that. tell her you don't want things to change between you but if she feels the way that you do you would like to take her out sometime. just don't waste anymore time with the what if, you could die tomorrow for all you know just do not leave regrets.
2006-06-09 01:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is not love until it's given away... Just tell her how you feel, whut if she's standing there waiting for you to make a move? Don't you know how much you're gonna lose?
There's a pretty good chance that she'll like you in return, because I think... a guy and a girl can't be best friends for so long unless they really like each other more than friends.
2006-06-09 01:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Miss_Perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it's pretty safe to say that you'd be in the Friend Zone now. It's doubtful that she's thinking of you as anything but a friend, and if you just come out with it now it'll make her feel very awkward. If you want her to reciprocate the feelings, you need to first get her to see you in a romantic light, as she must like your personality but she wouldn't be considering you as a potential partner. It's up to you how you do this, if you're comfortable casually flirting with other girls around her or what.
2006-06-09 01:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very careful with this situation. I have seen countless friendships being ended because friends are never the same once one reveals their true feelings. If I were you, I would take a more subtle approach such as dropping hints that you like her. Like sending her roses or a small gift. But make sure you take things slow! Also, pay attention to her reaction when you slowly reveal your feelings. If she looks uncomfortable, I would recommend that you ease off.
2006-06-09 01:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure u kno wat ur about 2 do sit down and get ur mind set up on it. When u do tell her tell her how u feel. if you dont tell her u r goin 2 be a$$-out because shes gonna end up coming wit da next dude and watz gonna happen after dat? And da sooner da betterbecause she might b falling 4 u just try and see for a reaction.
2006-06-09 01:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything if she is your best friend keep it that way if she wanted you she would let you know after 2 years. Just let it go and move on. Saying something might just mess things up it did for me twice.
2006-06-09 01:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by HavokBloodcraft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really? u know wat..IVE BEEN INLOVE WITH MY BESTFRIEND TOo SINCE I WAS 1ST YR. AND NOW I'M 4TH YR, HIGH SKUL.. but u know wat..the big deal is.. HE IS INLOVE WITH ME TOO!!...hehe..so...u've been for years and im sure she has a feeling for u too..NO KIDDING!! girls are not numb..easy to fall but great to pretend the're not..uh-huh!!..so my advice, have a great tym with her while you still havent sed ur feelings yet and then find a great timing, great ambiance, and especially think of the sweetest words u can before u say "i love u"..she might think youre taking advantage to her but if you just tell her how u really feel, she'll surely understand..
and oh!! WHEN THE TIME YOU TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL..MEAN IT!!..BE SERIUS AND MAKE SURE SHE'S PAYING ATTENTION OF WAT U ARE SAYING..because once she thinks ur just joking, its very hard to make her believe you really do love her..
trust me...i'm also a friend who loves a friend mor than a friend..and trust me,because im a girl..=)
hope it wud help..gud luck to ur love lyf!!...
2006-06-09 01:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have not gained courage over the last 2 yrs, why the hell do u people love. after all love is only for expressing. SO GO AHEAD AND SEND HER A GREETING CARD.
2006-06-09 01:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by sweety pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened with me. i finally told her b/c i couldnt stand having her not kno. if ur friend seems like they love u, too, u should definitly tell them. it turned out that she felt the same way. it worked out great for me; ive been w/ her for a while. u should tell them, b/c if u dont n they feel the same way but dont tell u, u'll go on forever never knowing how they felt. i hope it works out for u
2006-06-09 01:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by soccergrl1489 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up and be a man. Just tell her before some other dude swoops in and takes her.
2006-06-09 01:37:11 · answer #10 · answered by zmebme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋