do you care about what pple think of you if they think badly of you but you are a good person?

Question

and they are not your friends, they are past acquaintances, they haev an impression of you, but they are mostly wrongly informed.

Its just cos it bothers me what people think, and i feel like my name has been dragged through ****!

Answer 1

What can I do for you? You seem to be very oversensitive. Just dont care. Relax..

Answer 2

I'll begin wit a soul searching experdition if i were u.Some times in life we think we're good and we do no evil but if we take ourself into the other person's shoe or be at the recieving end we'll see the the hurt and pain the others really have undergone.Another thing to consider is that if u don't clear the air or really get urself out of this accusation it may come back to hunt u when u think all is well.Get urself cleared today as a saying go there are only living warrior but dead heros.

Answer 3

I have that same problem, I just can't stand for someone to think badly of me. Even if it is a person I don't care about or don't really know, I want people to think good things about me. I don't know how exactly to get over the feeling, I'm sorry I don't have a good answer for you. Just remmeber that we cannot change the past and must not let the past affect our futures negatively. In time we will forget about these people and it will make no difference how they feel. Best wishes

Answer 4

I really don't care but in fact I personally feel glad knowing that a person is thinking about me because that way you notice that you're important for them, they only keep watching what you're doing and then you think ..."they should get a life" jajaja the thing you have to do is continue with your life and maybe someday they will notice who you really are, but you don't have to worry about that people, everybody has a chance to give a bad judgement to someone and then find out that they were wrong if they don't , that people didn't really worth it.

Answer 5

I never worry about what people think of me.
Life is way too short to care & if they are bad-mouthing you it is giving some other poor schmuck a break isn't it?
If people have a bad opinion of you & they are not friends, but acquainatnce then forget it straight away. They are not important.
They are nothing. So long as your own conscience is clear then that is all that matters.
Get on with your life & do not give them another thought.

Answer 6

No. Try to ignore them and meanwhile build up you self confidence by listening to those that do appreciate you and know you now.

We all make mistakes - and maybe these people are judging you on one or two silly errors you made in the past - but we all learn from our mistakes and move on! People who are too shortsighted to see the whole person and focus on one or two bad points are losers and of no account.

Answer 7

Nope, I've never been the type to care what a past acquaintance thinks of me. That seems like a waste of time and energy.

Answer 8

When i was younger i used to care but i couldn't give a flying fu*k now! I think I'm a fair and nice person, i have fallen out with neighbour, we had words in the garden, she just has taken a dislike to me, 5 years ago i would of been bothered by it but i really dont care if people dont like me, the way i see it now is that, if they dont like me then i dont like them, so their opinion of me doesn't matter.

Answer 9

I care when pple turn to talk bad things about me while they are wrong,you have to know that its hard for a normal person to be said that you are abnormal,the good thing i do when there is that kind of situation is,i pray to God so that he should make them know that what ever bad things are saing is not true.and always God help cause nothing is impossible with him.so i ask you to pray when ever there is such situations in ur life.

Answer 10

I am constantly thinking about what ppl think of me, I am really self conciuos because of it.

I am even concious that my friends talk about me behind my back, I know that loads of people hate on me because I like to do my own thing and not follow the same crowds as I used to, I am tryna make it all about myself.

The best thing to do is to start thinking about what you want, **** the haters because they only make you stronger

Answer 11

I don't care what anyone thinks of me, I try to be a good person but not everyone will like you, that's human nature, have you liked everyone you have ever met? As long as you are good and law abiding then you can hold you head high!