4 yrs in love. when we are happy he is a mess but after any conflict he can make it.
2006-06-08 23:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by phenyegooaitse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is big part of intmacy, good luck
2006-06-08 23:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Robert Sternberg's research, "Love" is an emotion consisting of three components: intimacy, passion & committment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
-Intimacy alone is Liking (true friendship without passion or long-term commitment)
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone. Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
-Passion alone is Infatuation (passionate, obsessive love at first sight without intimacy or commitment)
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship. Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
-Commitment alone is Empty Love (decision to love another without intimacy or passion)
Romantic Love: Intimacy & Passion, no Commitment
-Lovers physically and emotionally attracted to each other but without commitment
-“As in a summer romance”
Companionate Love: Intimacy & Commitment, but no Passion
-Long-term committed friendships or a marriage in which the passion has faded
-I love you but I’m not IN love with you
Fatuous Love: Passion & Commitment, but no Intimacy
-Commitment based on passion with without time for intimacy to develop
-Shallow relationship such as a whirlwind courtship
Consummate Love: A complete love consisting of all three components
2006-06-12 09:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't discuss anything then his heart isn't in it as much as yours is. Though sex isn't everything, you shouldn't let it say wether you stay or leave. Let him know that you aren't happy sexually, then give him some options (toys, etc), maybe you can find a fun way to spice things up that he'll enjoy too.
2006-06-08 23:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
narrowminded people cannot satisfy ladies.this is a big problem in india.
dont worry be cool in sex and make him comfortable and say u r so happy about his capacity and tell him u r strong man.so that he will feel his confidence n he will be better. meet me at romeo_blr2003@yahoo.com
2006-06-09 00:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him
2006-06-08 23:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by nicegirl187smile 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he doesnt get his unless you get yours....:)
2006-06-08 23:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by holdonto_mr_brightside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on honey.
2006-06-08 23:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by VIRDS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is not everything of life.
2006-06-08 23:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by cool_gal_1988 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋