I am in a small city of japan (almost rural). She is 100% japanese, cant speak english,i neither speak japanese fluently. She introduced herself 3 months ago, told me where she worked,and that she remembered seing me last week ago riding bycicle!! asked me if I had a girlfriend,she said she had no boyfriend ( all this is extremely strange for japanese woman to do).
We have been going out for the last 3 months, she has taken meny pictures of us together,she even took me to a hair saloon to get a new hair cut!!she even let me hug her and kiss her cheek( unusual for a japanese ). Finally she tells me that she has a boyfriend that is getting angry, and she cannot see me anymore! What can I do, what should I do!?? Answer fast and wisely because I am stupid!Bettter if the answer comes from a japanese .
2006-06-08 23:32:22 · 5 answers · asked by Solraknauj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should forget about her and move on. she was probably just trying to use you. find a new girl! a lot of japanese girls love foreign guys!
2006-06-11 12:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived in Japan for over three years and have a lot of experience with the local women. If she made such a forward advance to you I'm sure you are capable of hooking up with another Japanese girl. She has already proved herself unreliable and is probably not the kind you want to waste your time with. So tell her bye bye and start saying "hi" to every good looking available Japanese girl you find. Ask them to teach you the language and do some studying on your own as well. That will prove to be the most beneficial and rewarding thing wou can do.
2006-06-09 05:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jared D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your girl is just bored with her life and you were something to pass the time....something to play around. now, i think she is bored again with you thats why she is breaking off. move on and get her out of your system. she is not worth it.
(sorry, im not japanese)
2006-06-08 23:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by catty blond 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you american? if so she just wanted to experience a western style of dating and maybe sex.
she cannot see you anymore cuz she is no longer interested in you. you were just used and tricked by her for fun.
sorry... just move on
2006-06-08 23:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
samuri chop him
2006-06-08 23:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋