those who kill themselves are escapists. they try to run away from a situation coz they can't handle it. they are cowards. are u one? don't u have the will to fight and struggle and emerge victorious? you can do it fellow. i don't have any idea why u wanna kill urself but yeah i do know this much that had it not been for my fighting spirit i would have done the same thing that u are thinking of, 4 years ago. well, i did not. i fought hard. actually my mom had resettled and my foster dad was ruthless on both of us. but we fought hard and now we are happy as ever. i am doing my engineering degree and she is succesfully running her hospital. f dad can not any harm anymore. that's the fighting spirit. do ur best and if u fail try harder................u will succeed.
killing urself is out of the question. u must survive and face hwta ever situation is in front of u. if u do, people will see u in awe!! otherwise they would say well poor thing just couldn't take it.
its upto u to be a hero or just any ordinary guy!
take care,
good luck!
2006-06-08 23:26:22
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answered by sunny98012 2
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Take your decision after you go through the article below-
To put it bluntly... anyone who commits suicide directly goes to hell (Naraka as we call it in Hinduism). There is no other remedy for one has transgressed the domain of God without his permission. We are never permitted to commit suicide and cut short the journey. Why?
In the cosmic system if we try to understand that it is our Atman the soul within that has taken the body and not otherwise... how can a Jiva (living being) leave the body on its own. We have committed a crime which even god, the Almighty Creator can never forgive. It is only and only dependent upon the Atman the soul within to manifest and leave the body dependent upon our Karma of the present and the past lives.
By cutting short the journey... do we mean we can get a more enlightening birth in the next manifestation? Never! For if we were traveling on point number 60 in the present life and for having committed suicide we are awarded a penalty of minus five then in the next birth we shall get a body only at a lower level that is number 55!
Supposedly... the body of a Human being is achieved at number 58 then it is possible that having been born as a Human being we may revert back to the animal kingdom for we are short of three numbers and unless and until by performing the requisite Karma we gain three numbers in the cosmic system we shall not be given the body of a Human being until then. What a pity!
Vijay Kumar...
(The Man who Realized God in 1993)
2006-06-09 02:31:19
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answered by Anonymous
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Real happiness and peace can be ONLY found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Qur’an: (Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest.)
(Qur’an, 13:28)
On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Qur’an will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:
(But whoever turns away from the Qur’an, he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment.) (Qur’an, 20:124)
This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.
To read the stories of people who have converted to Islam, please visit
http://www.islam-guide.com/stories
At this web page, you can read the thoughts and feelings of these people, who are from different countries and have different backgrounds and levels of education.
E-mail me: smiling4ever222@yahoo.com
2006-06-09 00:09:08
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answered by Anonymous
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No killing yourself is never the answer even if you are not religious. You won't get into Heaven because suicide is murder, and God is against murder.You would be returning God's precious gift to you-life. Plus, are you really willing to just leave all of your friends and family behind like that? They would be worried, confused, and depressed that you would actually kill yourself. Don't ever think that killing yourself would be right.
2006-06-09 00:10:52
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answered by Shauna 2
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do not kill urself!!! no, it wont solve ur problem it'll just leave the ppl that love u a new horrible problem to deal with...ur death. in fact i have always believed that suicide is a very selfish thing to do. seek help from a friend, family member or a doctor, and make sure u r honest to them about the things that r making u feel this way. gl2u! and i will pray for u too =)
2006-06-08 23:23:35
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answered by ~Lauralyn~ 3
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You know it is not the answer. What about analytical thinking?
1. Acknowledge there is a problem
2. Anlyse the problem
3. Suggest solutions
4. Try solutions
5. Evaluate and modify
Killing yourself makes you an eternal loser. Remember, Allah is there. Resort to Him, exert effort and He will help you out.
2006-06-08 23:22:24
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answered by daliaadel 5
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No you're just depriving yourself of the true essence of living. Problems are what make us change in character and show us where we need to grow spiritually. Our problems can cause us to seek God in a deeper way for the answers and help we need. Then eventually we can be there for someone else.
2006-06-08 23:23:22
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answered by ? 6
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Sometimes I also think like that. But others Will be in pain and shame. and the wise people say that it is disastrous . You have to commit suicide in all the next births also, And your individuality Will be in more pain after death, I have known people who knew that they have committed suicide in the past birth and in This birth thy suffer of a very negative situationBurt tell me why? have you lost the purpose of your life Or frustrated?
2006-06-08 23:30:30
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answered by daffodil 2
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No it's the problem. You need to get yourself out of that frame of mind.
All things pass and whatever is making you feel suicidal will pass if you sit tight and wait for it to pass without taking any drastic action...the world changes even when we do nothing and our situation changes over time, do nothing if you want and sit it out and let time heal.
2006-06-08 23:46:54
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answered by Anonymous
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when i get to feeling like i don't want to do another day, i stop and think can tomorrow be worse then being dead? if you have nothing to live for that in its self is a kinda freedom , death is boring , rather live one bad day at a time and hope for things to get better, then just lay down and quit! just remember this , I CANT SEE TOMORROW, I CANT CHANGE YESTERDAY, I CAN ONLY WORK ON TODAY TO MAKE TOMORROW BETTER. never give up ! best of luck.
2006-06-08 23:26:51
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answered by acejester1818 3
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