i'm 18...and well i have had a few relationship's but why is it i can't seem to trust guys anymore when i meet them. i start to feel like they want to use me and just try get into my pants. and i don't want this! i mean what the hell. im seriously very pissed off about this. i have a crush on this guy and well what if in the end he just wants to 'bang me' and then dump me?
2006-06-08 22:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a girl . and i'm not blaming guys entirely. im just saying why do i feel this way :( im not sexist. so dont get offended men.
2006-06-08 22:52:25 · update #1
can i mention something...i haven't had sex! so EXPLAIN THAT! SEE WHY IM CONFUSED :(
2006-06-08 22:58:24 · update #2
u r girl or guy?
2006-06-08 22:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ramkumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... It does get harder to trust guys as u go on thru out many relationships..especially wen they are the ones to dump u or do something wrong in the r.ship. I think its best that u giv it time, just look around, dont get too attatched to guys and begin to trust em more as frends 1st before anything else. When u realli think u cant trust them as a frend and see more to it, then go for it.
The majority of guys seem to make it sound lik they want to get into ur pants and this can be annoyin as its not wut us girls are lookin for..Just take it easy with this guy u hav a crush on at the moment and see how things go. Dont become too attatched to him just incase u realise the real him, but also dont distance yourself too much because u hav to learn to trust and give the guy a chance... just take it slow and step by step and if u see any danger just back off.
Also... dont committ urself to him now... LIVE UR LIFE and have him 'on the side' as in dont giv him 100% of urself all the time...cuz this will often end up in u getin hurt agen..
open up...bt not too much
2006-06-09 06:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Evie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time off. Dont let anyone 'bang' u.wait for the right guy and right moment,enjoy the feeling of falling in love ,dont ruin it with thoughts of sex..........all the best.
2006-06-09 05:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by sarita tiwari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Guy I suggest you look for dudes at Church, Or a Library, School? Somewhere in an intelligent environment.
2006-06-09 05:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you're not giving the guys a chance. or maybe you are looking for guys in the wrong places. don't let them use you and if that is all they are after they won't stick around.
if a guy gets pissy because you don't want to do something for him or if he never does anything for you those are signs he just wants to use you.
2006-06-09 05:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that if you're not ready then it doesn't have to happen. Sorry to say but sometimes you have to weed out the garden to find the sweetest fruit. Just know that not everybody thinks with their crotch. Stay true and be happy.
2006-06-09 05:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we had a relationship it is important to trust that person.aur waise bhi samne waale ki aankhen sab kuch bayan kar deti hai
whether he really wants to have a relation or just wants to take advantage of yours
ab aap main kitni samajh hai ye aap par depend karenge
2006-06-09 05:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by shagaafi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a boundary and a self-respect issue to me. First of all, when you set your limits low, that's what you get: low lifes. When you raise your standards, you get higher prospectives. Just know that you are worthy of being respected and treated with decency. Know that you are worthy, girl. If you don't believe it, nobody will.
2006-06-09 05:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that men 4 u all over
2006-06-09 05:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by yates1239 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont let him so that kinda stuff
Just be extra carefull with guys
2006-06-09 05:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT U WANT TO USE THEM IN A CERTAIN WAY AS WELL? WE ALL USE ONE ANOTHER IN A CERTAIN WAY, SO DONT ACT LIKE IT IS JUST THE MEN USING U, U USE THEM AS WELL. BUT U DONT WANT TO LOOK AT IT THAT WAY HUH?
2006-06-09 05:50:44 · answer #11 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋