i am 22 and love my boyfriend very much we have been dating for a year he is 26 an absolutly amazing but i am still scared about having sex why???????? i want to ( and no i was never molested)
2006-06-08 22:09:16 · 7 answers · asked by nikki b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he has never pressured me once
2006-06-08 23:46:19 · update #1
please feel free to email me thanks
2006-06-09 00:15:03 · update #2
Listen- there is no rush with things like that,if he loves u like u do love him,then he should wait even 5 years -when u r 100% ready... So dont stress abt it,jut get 2 know him more,u will trust him more and maybe after that u will be ready! Good luck =)
2006-06-08 22:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're simply scared of having sex because you've never done it. If your boyfriend is great, he'll wait until you are ready. It's good that you waited. Having your first time with someone you love is so much better than just having it with just anyone. I think you'll know when the time is right, you'll just feel it. Good Luck.
P.S.- When the time comes, use protection, use it every single time, so you don't end up like all those girls on here wondering if they are pregnant!
2006-06-08 22:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing, readiness does not come with an age limit. If you are scared or have any doubts then don't. Virginity is something special, that once is gone will never return. I say congrats on your wait so far for the right man, and if he is the right man for you he will wait, with out pressure, for as long as it takes for you to become ready.
2006-06-08 22:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Home Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have sex until you are married. You will not be scared of sex whren you are ready to have it with your husband. Once you know there is a lifetime commitment there, you will be ready.
2006-06-15 11:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by enigma21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the first time is going to be scary. Just relax and don't stress out about it.
2006-06-08 22:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by PRSummer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready then dont do it yet! the right time, place will come... if he really loves you, he will wait for the right time and he must respect your decisions so just enjoy each others company . have fun (good luck!) : )
2006-06-08 22:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos its your first time. If you want to then go for it....you have special feelings for him so whats stopping you? there is nothing wrong with sex. You are not a slut.....
2006-06-08 22:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by smart_babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋