they don't get attached but i love my husband. He is in Iraq right now and I have no friends or anything here and I am so alone so I have met these guys and they give me what I need. Am I really that horrible or am I doing this because I can.
2006-06-08 21:39:23 · 18 answers · asked by sarah j 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
your doin it because you can and you want someone to give you the attention your husband isn't giving you but having sex with them if find that very wrong why don't you have one of them buy you a vibrator.so what im sayin is if you really loved your husband you wouldn't be sleepin with other men. commitment is what you lack that or you have no self control.
2006-06-15 12:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by baby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is unevitable.Agreed.I can understd ur situation.Sex is need once u hv got engaged.But Love is biggest thing than sex too. U love ur hubby. Hes earning for u both, struggling much, earning day n night, sacrificing n u here having fun? Fun is what u r needing which can be really avoided by looking ur hubby earning penny penny over miles. Respect ur husband. Please value him.Dont backstabb. whatever u r doing, so shall u ripe. Warning.U never know. Engage in something productive, creative which can divert ur mind. Be a good answerer in yahoo.Many many things u can do. U not alone, when u have internet. Meditate. Pray god.Try to stay happy with positive thoughts as much u can.Dont let enter sex thoughts enter. Sacrificing gives much in return. I really hope u leave that path to save ur marriage and ur life.Its difficult for a women to survive alone after marriage breakup.
2006-06-09 05:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by enlighten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really horrible and I hope your husband leaves you when he gets home from Iraq. That is skanky. The more I think about this YOU are skanky. How could you do something like this while your husband is over there fighting a war? You suck, and I hope the wives of those married men you are sleeping with kick your SKANKY A**!
2006-06-15 18:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're doing it just because you can, then you are doing a horrible thing.
You said you are alone and have no friends where you are? Then what are you waiting for? Get out there, get a hobby and make some friends! Maybe if you filled your time with fulfilling activities instead of feeling lonely all the time, you'd have less time and less reason to screw around...
2006-06-09 06:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by pianowire20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being very unfaithful. Even though you're husband is in Iraq, it doesn't give you the right to have sex with other people; especially with married men.
2006-06-15 16:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, great. Your husband is risking his life in an unjust war and you're screwing around because you're lonely. Get a dog. Join a club to find some friends. Do volunteer work. Grow up.
2006-06-15 04:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by cloudofchanel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I "think is wrong with you" is that you are lonely.
If you are going to have this type of relationship, a marriage not based on sexual fidelity, maybe it's more appropriate to have that as a topic of discussion and honesty between you?
If your actions, though, are filling you with shame and remorse, then that's something else. Maybe that's something to explore with a therapist, because that might be a manifestation of your anxiety about his being in a dangerous place, and you are psychologically protecting yourself from that fear by creating distance from your feelings about him through sexual experiences with other married men.
2006-06-09 11:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by snowbaal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong per se. If your husband really loves you he should understand that you have needs, and want you to be happy. If that means seeking sexual satisfaction from others when he's not around, then so be it. An unselfish spouse would only be thinking of your happiness.
However... There is an inevitable risk of complications and adverse consequences, such as angry wives and STDs. You need to be very, *very* careful.
2006-06-09 05:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty terrible. It's cheating no matter what the circumstances. Imagine how you would feel if you found out that your husband was having sex with other women - married or not.
2006-06-09 04:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this so bluntly, but what you are doing is very wrong. I suspect that your cheating has nothing to do with how far away your husband is. Please stop committing adultery immediately, and find some professional mental help and/or the help of an ecclesiastical leader. Please. It will help your relationship be stronger, and it will make you much happier than these one-night stands.
2006-06-10 23:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋