Why so many guys even if they slept with so many girls,they wanna marry a virgin?

Answer 1

You know the Star Trek syndrome "To boldly go where no man has gone before". It is because we want a wife they no one has been their before. We want to be the first to enter the vaginal gates. it is their is the woman you have sex with and the female you marry.

Answer 2

I honestly don't think this is as much an issue as it used to be- say in the past century. People are more enlightened now and men are starting to realise that attitudes like that are not only unrealistic but are selfish and chauvinistic as well.

I'm sure if you ask men what they'd like, some of them might still want virgins but at the end of the day, it really doesn't matter. Most people marry someone they love and can see themsleves being with for the rest of their life- irrespective of whether or not they were a virgin or not.

Answer 3

there is no simple way to put this but its about conquering, male egos and innocence. A combintation of those are arttactive qualities on paper. However on reality/personally I prefer someone with a little experience ( not to much as I still want to learn and try a few things together ) and we can both enjoy ourselves.

But if you are right and guys have slept with so many girls and thats no always the case, when you get to an older age ( 20 + it isnt always that easy to find)

Answer 4

i dont think men want to marry virgins, not in western culture anyway.
For the main reason that getting married is a hell of a commitment and it takes a long time in order for you to be ready for that sort of thing (apparently an average relationship length of around 18months) plus planning, organizing etc etc. For arguements sake well say 2 years in total.
now, how many guys, really, would want to go for 2 years without sex?

Answer 5

Some guys like to think of themselves as 'the first' in a girl's life, and perhaps it's because they feel slightly inadequate and don't like the thought of being compared. Personally I think it's a very selfish expectation to have of a partner, and it should absolutely not be an issue if you truly love someone.
I place absolutely NO value on whether a girl is a virgin or not when I am in love with them. I have no interest in their previous sexual experience, that is their business, not mine.
Nice question though! :)

Answer 6

Men do not want second hand goods, seriously it is double standards, they want fun and to sleep with various women BUT they want there wife to be pure, it is mainly in there head as most people do not marry virgins and probably most people want to try and see if the are sexually compatible before they make a major commitment

Answer 7

Good Question!!

I think mostly that only happend in Asia not western.
Most men in asia are selfish.. they wanted to Have fun but only marrying the virgin..what if the Girls also wanted the virgin guys??? :D
well for me personaly, if the guys only wanted marry with virgin thats means they don't really love you. cause they really consider only for that.. that's means they SELFISH!!

Answer 8

You assume three things wrong:

1) You assume that most guys sleep with "so many girls." Some have, most haven't.
2) You assume that they want to marry a virgin. Says who? Your mom? Your pastor? Why would a guy want to marry someone who doesn't know what they're doing?
3) You assume that guys want to get married. Most don't.

Answer 9

Because they are flirts. They feel all their immoral partners are cheap and might be cheating outside the marriage if they marry them. So they look for whom they think they can control and trust sexually. Also remember that those ones he slept with might not have character to make good wife. They might be good on bed and not good in marriage.

Answer 10

it can be a big mistake most want to marry a virgin but expect her to perform like someone with years of experience creates pressure on both, better to marry the person you met as they are not what they were, if you love them enough

Answer 11

They just want to marry a virgin because they can brag i was the first one but who knows if they are going to stick to them or they will go back to their old ways.