I can't help but read all of his mail everytime i get on. This feels wrong.
2006-06-08 21:01:56 · 36 answers · asked by tah-tah* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, it's okay if you don't mind him finding out how insecure you are when you confront him with something you didn't want to see as though he owes you allegience. Chances are if you do find something you didn't want to see, it is there because you act the way you do and he is looking somewhere else for something better, and it sounds like he won't have any trouble finding something better either.
2006-06-08 21:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too... I can but help read my Girlfriends mails. I would assume this is human to see what other persons life is which is not visible to us. May be insecurity or lack of trust. I think the more open and frank you are between you too you will find reading his mail less and less interesting. As there will hardly be any new information and you won't do it again.
2006-06-08 21:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by SanS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all do you not trust him or something you must have a little voice inside of you that says something of that sort because how would you feel if you found out that he was checking your e-mail? Ya thats what i thought!
2006-06-08 21:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by miissj93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ok for your boyfriend to search your e-mail? Are you having trust issues?
2006-06-08 21:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u trust him but still if u just want to check , just of eagerness and curiousity, then pls dump that feeling. :). some things are better to be secured/monitored/safe by themselves.dont let ur soul question u needlessly when there is nothing in it, n if present too, then y asking for trouble.
2006-06-08 21:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by enlighten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because it is . ha ha i think if he gives you reason to check it right on with it , but if he's giving you no reason to try to make yourself quit the nasty habit .
one time my husband bought flowers for valentines day when he was deployed to be sent to our house to me from the Internet and i found out by snooping well the day came and almost ended and i was becoming more furious with every passing hour (thinking to my self who the hell he send flowers too if not me ?!!!) so i ended up getting a call from him and i had to pretend like i didn't know anything and then he asked me all disappointed if anything came , finally relief they were for me after all and the flower van pulled up 10 Min's later , boy that coulda started a hella fight !
2006-06-08 21:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he permits, To check some one else mail is a bad manner.
2006-06-08 21:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't trust him. Trust takes time. Although as long it would be okay if he could check your e-mails, yes its okay for you to check his e-mails. XD
2006-06-09 16:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Make It Stop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants to continue the drama trauma paradigm, so nip it in the bud or search your soul to see if you perhaps have an insecurity issue...or paranoia...and get on with life. Have fun.
2006-06-08 21:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend and you all are serious, then there is no problem. The only problem that could arise is that he's hiding something from you that he shouldn't be, and that's a definite no-no.
2006-06-08 21:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋