My boyfriends ex is back in town (from a different country) and I'm not sure what is going on with them. He told me he'd call me over the weekend. Do I play it cool, and pretend I'm not assuming all of the things I'm assuming are happening, or do I ask him outright if she is back because she wants him back, and if he is considering this? Its driving me crazy.
2006-06-08 20:51:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
play it cool. trust him. use one of your friends to talk to so that you get your frustration off your back. if it is like that; he wants to get back with her - theres nothing you can do. If you cling to him and crave him for answers - youre bound to lose him.
2006-06-08 20:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is YOUR boyfriend, and if you feel uncomfortable about this situation by all means mention it to him. She is his ex and depending on the circumstances of their break up anything could happen. Let him know you trust him, but if he is thinking of doing anything, or if he feels for this girl still let you know, you aren't just along for the ride, and you rather he be honest with you than go behind your back and do something.
2006-06-08 20:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK THAT IDIOT WHAT IS GOING ON!!! Sorry, just never trust a bf/gf with their ex.. it's begging for trouble if you do trust them alone and together.
If she wants him back then you can rest assure they have talked about "future possibilities".
2006-06-08 20:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by PlasticTrees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be calm but do ask him whats going on. Just make sure you dont get angry coz if you are wrong you'll mess up a great relationship! But be honest with him!!
2006-06-08 21:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you lite a fuse to a bomb, ask your friend what her intention are. Go from there. You don't want to put a friendship in jeopardy do you ?
2006-06-08 20:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him be honest and work it out
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-06-08 20:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest and be calm
2006-06-08 20:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sajis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be too obvious just ask him calmly
2006-06-08 20:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on, ask him, but please don't nag. Don't let your insecurities get in the way, be positive.
2006-06-08 20:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Arby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get him drunk the tell him
2006-06-08 20:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋