iam a 18 years old and met this guy 3 years ago. he left me saying only that he never loved me and tht he was double dating. now he comes to me saying he is sorry and never wanted to hurt me and not to forget they was no other girl in his life ever except me .he now wants to becomes friends with me again but i only replied love can't turn to friendship.iam not sure of what i did was right but i still love him.
2006-06-08 20:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r 18.. long way to go my dear...the guy has cheated on u...nd never believe these kinda guys...u can never in ur entire life be sure when nd how he is gonna betray u...i cant force u but its better u stop loving him.....
2006-06-08 20:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by virgo26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, take both views into perspective. Is it worth trying to mend your old relationship, and starting over or should you just try to forget all about him? It is your decision wiether or not you are willing to take him back, but if you do I would not let it get any farther than friends, unless you want him to break your heart again!
2006-06-09 03:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by miissj93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me neither of you knows the true meaning of love. Youre lonesome and think being together will cure your feelings but until you learn to love yourself and be happy being on your own, you cant love anyone else. Love is built on honesty, respect, communication and sharing.
2006-06-09 03:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's coming back because hes lonely, horney, or both. Its like reaching out for the life boat when you are drowning...if you become the lifeboat his weight may drag you with him.
2006-06-09 04:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by solitas777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one a cheater always a cheater he might have been cheating with that other girl and she found out and now he dont have a girlfriend so he came crawling back to u and he think u will forgive him and as soon as he has another girl he will be gone...
2006-06-09 03:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say don't let the door hit you on your way out........don't be a sucker or a doormat, ok? You can still love him.......enough to let him go! Unfaithful/betrayed once, unfaithful/betrayed always.....forgive and move on.
2006-06-09 03:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pattycake2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would not get back w/ him..if he loved and still loves u like he says he does why would he hurt u right?i mean thats stupid think about it..
2006-06-09 03:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by ROCKSTAR*CHICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player dont fall for that crap you can do better ever wonder what he done the past.3. years ?
2006-06-09 03:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a bastard don't spoil Ur life for him. What if he will leave u again??
2006-06-09 03:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by palak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch him.he will let you down again if you get back together.
2006-06-09 03:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋