i have this friend she works with me, she is a year younger than me, ive known her since the last two years of school, after we met in the library, and wow, suprisingly after school ended, and after one year i met her again,..we are quite close..and yesterday she told me abotu her life, despite she is rich and all, but she did not go tru a good childhood, she had a satcastic dad and devils for lil brothers..but sumting that she told me made my heart pain..she said the thing she gone tru gave her a bad expression of how male should be..but not all males are like her dad.. well..iam not like his dad..and worst still she said, she doesnt want to get married. and want to get an adoption..i dont mind adoption and all..but she is too firm with her decision.well .i am worried cuz..i afterall the years i just realised i love her ever since the first day i met her in the school library, she is not like other girls, yes i admti she has a little problem.mental a bit but i dun mind..wat can i do?
2006-06-08 20:30:16 · 5 answers · asked by winternovelist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u must talk with her about this matter
2006-06-08 20:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to show her the way. But before you decide to take this to a new level of committmant, it would be beneficial to you both to speak to a professional who can counsel you both on her issues. I guarantee you both have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.
g'luck in your future together!
2006-06-09 03:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to her. Tell her that not all males are like that and blah blah blah.
2006-06-09 03:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might think its a small problem, but these things are for real. Tread carefully...and dont get involved in the whole thing....
2006-06-09 03:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and talk with her about this.
2006-06-09 03:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋