im 18, and never had a REAL boyfriend!! i mean, im not picky at all....just no one likes me....ok, i dont know if being attracted to white and hispanic guys being picky, but...well, thats kinda what i like.....they probably dont like me cause im black, and stocky/chunky/chubby.........FAT, lol.....any advice? oh, and maybe im not cute enough...
2006-06-08 19:06:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep trying. Trust me, there are PLENTY of white guys who like black girls. I'm one of them. Sorry, I'm engaged : )
Cheers,
Jon
2006-06-08 19:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by jonthecomposer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of men who like black ladies!! Stop being insecure because that is a definte turn off. Be yourself and be confident and sassy-live your life to the full. Have fun with every activity you participate in and love will come to you-and be picky! Don't just grab the first guy that shows you attention to have a boyfriend! Unless you like him. ;)
Seriously...don't worry too much about it-life happens to you every day and if you don't grab it with both hands, it can give you some serious bruises. Don't compare yourself to anyone else.
2006-06-09 02:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by curiositycat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young im gonna be 21 in a few months and technicly ive never been kissed, much less had a girlfriend. so join the group (allthough it is a small one with not very many people claiming to be a member). hmmmm. and hey dont worry about your shape that much. personly i like a girl that has a shape to her other then 'twig' or 'makes twig look huge' but that is me not all guys. so cheer up the person that the search is on for is still going on and lets lets it run and not try to hurry it.
2006-06-09 02:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Krg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dearie, you are beautiful... You're still young and maybe you haven't yet met the one who is for you. Go out and mingle - immerse yourself in activities where you will develop more your potentials and meet lots of people in the process. You can start with interests groups, you may join the Jaycees [it's a socio-civic group that accepts all except those who are beyond 40 years old], join the church choir, etc. Be creative and enjoy yourself. You have a lot going for you.
2006-06-09 02:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Luzzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got my first serious boyfriend at 19 and we've been married now for 6 years. Just be patient, the right one will come
2006-06-09 02:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by smsgreaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 19 and i do love you just im me at pascalnegred
2006-06-09 02:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by SKINNY BONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r wat u are....n no one can change dat except u...but dun change urself for somebody..well,mayb u shld wait for the right guy to come n different people have different happy ever after story... :)
2006-06-09 02:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by SyLvEr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋