the guy i like is really sweet and he flirts with me constantly(at work) but he has a gf of like 6 months and i dont know if i should let him go.....i think he shouldn't flirt if he is taken i dunno ...help
~just me~
2006-06-08 18:18:42 · 18 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well back off if he has a gf. dont give him one bit of flirt. maybe he will backoff too. or when he does flirt remind him he has a gf. if it goes too far tell his gf. good luck!
2006-06-08 18:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Balletbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys flirt with pretty girls just as a way to comfortably relate to them in an environment like work. Don't think anything of it. Most of the time that is as far as they are willing to go. He most likely would be really surprised if he found out you were taking his flirting to heart.
You're right, he should find another way to relate at work.
You shouldn't expect anything to come of the flirting.
2006-06-09 01:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by cdb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably like you too and thats why he's flirting. Even though he has a girl a guy can still flirt and not cheat. But it could be that he's testing the waters. he know that you know thae he has a girl. So he probably wnats to see if you go along with his flirts and maybe get in your pants on the low. In case you aint know, guys love having more than one girl. Its even better when the other girl knows he has a girl and is cool with it. R u cool with it? Make ur move!
2006-06-09 01:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by S.P.I.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you bother liking him if he has a gf?? Believe it or not, flirting takes two....if he didnt feel your vibe on the other end he would probably quit with the flirting. Find someone else for yourself who is unattached. You will save yourself a lot of hurt in the long run.
2006-06-09 01:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by trystero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him and find out where he stands. let him know that you are aware of the fact that he has a girlfriend and if he does not plan to be with you then he should stop giving you mixed signals. Also dont allow yourself to be led on flirting can be fun but when you lead someone on and give them mixed signals then it something else. pay attention to the way he reacts when other people are around. then you decide
2006-06-09 01:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you let him go if he is not yours?Tell him that things may be different if he didnt have a gf but since he does,,you are off limits.Then,,ya gotta think about,,if he were with you,,would he be flirting with others?
2006-06-09 01:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might try asking him how his girlfriend is doing. That usually puts a stop to a flirtation. Dont believe you actually have the option of 'letting him go.' Doesnt appear that you 'own' him.
2006-06-09 01:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared to ask him. ask if he is still dating that one girl and he will say yes or no and then hell ask why,which will leave you the opportunity to tell him that you like him or ask him if he likes you.or just stop flirting with him and he will notice and ask what is wrong,tell him nothing but in a troubled way go on to explane and tell him how you feel.
2006-06-09 01:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by texas boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just flirt with other girls even though they have a girlfriend but that doesn't mean that they want to be with you
2006-06-09 01:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly let him go. If hes into you as you say he is, he will stop dating the other girl. Would you really want a cheating man?
Its nicer to the other girl too.
2006-06-09 01:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by pink_strawberries99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋