GENTLEMEN! Do you insult girls you like to get their attention?

Question

Do you like it when a girl sends you flowers?
Do you want us to make the first move or would you rather be the one to score first?
Do you expect to get kissed or do you prefer being the one to initiate such action?

Answer 1

Far from it! To insult a lady is so childish that I would not expect a lady to pay any but adverse attention to it. Should a lady LIKE that kind of attention, then she is certainly NOT the kind of lady I want to be with. Please! I want to be with ladies who like kindness, consideration, tenderness, and sweet love; further, I want that in return. Nothing less will do. Life is too short for anything less.

It is a rarity when a woman sends me flowers. I would find it very touching, I think. Depends on the message both hidden and stated in the flower (flower types say something, you know.) So, do be careful what you send.

Make the first move. Sure. Just be clear what signals you are sending. Do not play all hurt that I take that move for more permission than you are granting. And do understand that I take "No" to mean no. If you mean to say NO, do say that, too.

Kissing, My Flower, is a team sport. It takes two. Initiation of the activity can come from either party. There are subtle signs a lady wishes to be kissed. And if you wish I can enumerate them for you:

1. First thing, women enjoy anticipation much more than men do. So, it is probably rare that the woman will kiss the man first unless the woman thinks the man is absolutely clueless.

2. A woman will look intently at a man, lick her lips (all unconsciously), then look away. Small blush is ok here.

3. Look for her eyes on the look toward, are the pupils dilated? Another very good sign she wants to be kissed.

4. She will lean toward the man. A wise man at this point will lean back away. *grin*

5. She will play with her hair, just a small touch. Then a glance back at the man's face to see if he noticed.

6. Lips parting, breathing deepens a bit. Sometimes here a small flush, not quite a blush.

7. Her hands may be under her chin or flutter down toward his. Contact signals a desire to begin more.

8. Again, a man might move closer and at the last moment move sideways away. This builds momentum.

9. Her fingers touching her clothes, perhaps a button, collar. Even better, his collar. The moment she straightens his collar, it is possession. She is taking possession of him in a very real sense. Doubt this? Watch a married couple sometime.

10. If the man is unsure, he might raise her fingers to his lips and kiss them. If he wants to raise the stakes, turn her palm over and kiss it, lightly while breathing on it. Then slowly lower her hand. Watch her eyes.

Any more than that, Gentle Lady, would be telling...@};-

Answer 2

Well for the immature guys that are out there, insulting a female on the "playground" is the only way they know how to flirt.

Personally, I have only had one female in my past give me flowers. I really didn't know what to do with them, but I stuck them in a vase and put them out as a center piece on my kitchen table. As far as making the first move goes..........it is really not about who does it first. I mean you sit there at dinner or have drinks and as the conversation and the evening goes on, two people generally know that they are attracted and would like to experience that first touch, or kiss. I really don't think it is about conquering each other.

Me personally, I never initiate the first kiss. I was raised to respect women and if she leans forward then so be it. If not then I let it go and carry on until the next time.

Answer 3

You think to much! Just do what comes natural and stop over analyzing every freaking little thing. Does he like me, should I make the first move? YES!!!! If you want to then DO IT!!! A guy will never object if a girl makes the first move, it is actually a nice change of pace.

Answer 4

cuz jerks look to be extra funner to be with with regards to women, they view best men as low esteemed losers i must recognise due to the fact that i'm a type of men. But best men conclude final, recall that. A badass is not ready to devote endlessly and can ultimately come to be somewere within the streers, in n out, prison, and so on. It's no longer dangerous to be a badass as soon as in a even as and exhibit off however do not be one for ever ya recognise? Show the lady you've a wild facet mixed with a comfortable, sensetive facet. Life's quick, be comfortable, experience! peace!

Answer 5

yeah some times.
Yeah I like flowers.
I like to make the first move.(Watcha call being in charge.lol)
get kissed

Answer 6

A) sometimes
B) sure thing, just dont over do it
C) i hate making the first move
D) not me! but later, me

Answer 7

why would i insult someone who gave me LUV ?