I had gone through some anwers on this topic. People call cybering perverts & all such thing. I am single & done cybering with my cam. Whats so wrong? Cant you guys consider it as an extension to chatting?
2006-06-08 18:03:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cybering isn't wrong and it doesn't have to be done on Cam, it can be all text even. To me though, it is high tech masterbation more than anything else.
I think people think it is wrong because they feel that you are being intimate with someone you can't possibly know, but anyone who has tried it knows that it isn't that intimate - it can be fun I guess, but nothing beats the real thing with someone we care about. The nay sayers think those who do have cyber sex have forgotten that or that all sex outside of wedlock is a sin.
How about having cyber sex with your spouse while they are out of town - I wonder if they think that is a sin.
2006-06-08 18:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cam sex is just being just exhibitionism at best. The problem here is that something is missing in your life that causes you to want to exhibit yourself doing the things you do on camera. There's nothing whatever wrong with sex, especially when it's between consenting adults. I feel that you are not yet an adult, though. And this is why you need an answer to the question.
Another problem with cam sex is that it truly is porno. It is done for the excitement and it is viewed for the fantasy. The excitement is on the part of the sexual partners and the fantasy is on the part of the viewer. If you really love the one you're having sex with, you won't want others in your activities with you. In what you seem to be doing, it's done for the excitement alone and there is nothing beyond that and the gratification of an orgasm. It doesn't even come close to the rewards of sex with a mature and loving partner.
Does this help?
2006-06-08 18:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is such a problem with young kids on the Internet getting involved with sick perverts who either kidnap them and take advantage of them or just take advantage of them. It's OK as long as you know you're not cybering with some young kid.
2006-06-08 18:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an extension to chatting like blowing a guy you just met at a bar in the bathroom, is an extension to flirting. Nothing wrong with it per se, but it is a little cheap and tacky.. and fun.
2006-06-08 18:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by lalalanutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe there to be anything "wrong" with it as long as both people are of legal age and consenting.
I personally don't care anything for it. I have to admit I do find it irksome when those who do enjoy it can't take no for an answer. Those are your people who bring all the negative vibes.
2006-06-08 18:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little disgusting, desperate and overall INTERACTIVE pornography. Think about it, you are masturbating on a camera with a creepy STRANGER. Ok, so you don't get AIDS or anything and there may be no strings attached. Isn't that a little cold, disconnected and gross?
2006-06-08 18:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's moralism
2014-06-06 08:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think ther is nothing wrong with it as long as chimos dont use it for there pervertions.
2006-06-08 18:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by carla_estrada18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋