and spent every minute of each day with them outside of work. I was the father figure in their family. We were both always honest and faithful to each other and went to many kid parties as well as friends parties. I would do everything for her to please her and to make her son happy. Ex. taking her son to and from school, being there for all his sports like swimming and soccer and baseball etc. , playingwith her son in the yard. Now her son is 8 but still loves to play. But one day she turned into this witch ***** and dumped me for reasons that were just all lies and accusations just to get out. I tried wanting to talk to her but she won't. But I love her so deeply that she and her son mean everything to me. I have given her space for 5 months but I think about them every single day. I want to get back with her and be there for her and her son again. What should I do?
2006-06-08 17:55:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try calling her again or writing her a letter asking her to talk. However, if she wants out of the relationship, there will be nothing that you can do to change her mind. And if she wants out of the relationship, it is a good indicator that she doesn't love you...do you really want to be in a relationship where your love isn't recropicated?
2006-06-08 17:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by sisbee8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is awful, but when one member of a relationship is done with the relationship, the whole thing is over, no matter what the reason. There's no point in chasing it. I tried that for 7 years and just wasted my time - and I met so many great guys in those 7 years! What was I thinking?
Then I found someone else, and fell in love... something happened that made me need to get out of the relationship fast, even though he didn't want to end it. Now I understand, but it's still tough.
Give her up. In years to come her son will look back and remember you as a positive male in his life, but now you have to leave them. He will miss you now, but will eventually understand.
I'm very sorry. Better luck next time - there are loads of wonderful women in the world.
2006-06-09 16:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by superfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she has made up her mind 4 now. NOW if you want to win her back give her space. She has made up her mind about what she believes.I wouldn't push her . IF she is throwing lies at you she may say your doing things to the son and have you put in jail. So think about it do you want that? Id Rather have a broken heart then sit in jail from a woman that throws lies at me and believes lies. LOOK count your losses move on. GIVE it to the LORD. If its meant to be you will be back together. YOU were there 4 that child that's important. I pray you move on before she (the witch) puts your buns in jail 4 nothing. To me it also sounds like she was jealous of your friend ship and attention with her son.
2006-06-08 18:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a great guy, I dont know why would she dump you! Go see her and explain that you love her and her son. Tell her that whatever reasons she's dumping you for arent true! Try getting her back, maybe do sth really romantic or buy sth nice for her son! I really dont know. This is Hollywood material!
2006-06-08 18:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 10:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smarten up and get on with your life , how can you say you love someone who just treated you in such a way.You need to take a good look at yourself and if you have any self respect or self esteem if not go to your mom and tell you need a good swift kick in the a.s.s.
2006-06-08 18:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter if she won't listen to you.. Other then that you can't rush her she is in pain she probably feels that you betray her after she trusted you....even though they are false accusations. Do you have someone that can support you and the truth have them speak to her about it then if you do..
2006-06-08 18:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Brookey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say but the kids always are in the middle when,
you not together, i know that you are love this boy as your own
but , i feel that for the best interest of this child, i would not get
back with her, because it will be confussing to him, but
since she know that you love this boy, and what she doing is
wrong, but you need to respect her wishes in this matter,
2006-06-08 18:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, maybe you were too good to be true. And if it's been 5 months already, i think you should really try to move on, because it sounds like shes really not interested anymore.
2006-06-08 18:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off and give her more space....if it is meant for the two of you to be together she will eventually come back. It could be that she is afraid. Then maybe she is looking for a bigger commitment....MARRIAGE?????
2006-06-08 18:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy LeLe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋