supposed to take it?
2006-06-08 17:49:12 · 18 answers · asked by lefty 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Women are supposed to be nice to men, too. Don't put up with that stuff.
2006-06-08 17:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by terraform_mars 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As my friend used to say, "Don't try to understand women - they're not like normal people."
Sexist? Only if you think my friend is a man.
Point is, we all think we're pretty normal, and everyone's an individual. Therefore "normal" is a false truth.
Men and women aren't SUPPOSED to treat each other in any particular way. Some people don't like the way some other people treat them, so they walk away.
Some stick around because the gains are worth the cost.
Priorities...
2006-06-09 09:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by timcazeve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't necessarily think that's how it goes. More often than not, it's more like whomever is 'nice' usually is the one that gets crapped on. Try this quote on for size.
"Whomever cares the least, controls the relationship."
That said, if a person feels 'beat up' in a relationship--then chances are they keep picking the same types of people for relationships. If I don't want to keep getting crapped on by women, then I gotta look at what things I value (and "can't stand) and compare that with my choices.
2006-06-09 13:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by beaker3012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way it is. at first when the men are young they are desparate for love so they do anything, like being nice .
Then they get old they do anything to get trated nice.
Women have what men, other women wnat. So women are in a sort of postion to choose. it's allways up to the women to choose, unless they fall in love.
2006-06-15 16:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by srcme2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're not supposed to take it. The Bible tells us that we are to love one another as brothers and sisters in Christ. If someone is mistreating you, don't sit around and act like it's fine. You may feel like an idiot after doing it, but speak up. Tell them it's not okay for them to treat you that way, whether they're male or female.
2006-06-09 00:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by hillbilly_mama123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be a lot to deal with sometimes, just as men can be, but once more for the record: you don't have to just take it. Let her watch your back moving further and further away. You'll feel better.
2006-06-09 02:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by HisChamp1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman. My mom always said the reason girls are not told to be nice to boys is because we are suppose to already know. Like instinct. Boys had to be told because there instinct is to protect not nurture. I feel some were down the lines we all lost contact with our instincts. Hope it helps.
2006-06-09 00:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think anyone is supposed to treat anyone badly. in fact i hate it when women DO treat men badly. i have been abused and used by men a lot in my lifetime so far...but i never think that it's okay to hurt them back.
2006-06-09 03:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People should treat each other the way they're being treated. If your female friends are treating you bad, say something. Worse case, don't see them anymore.
2006-06-15 16:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Apple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what a rude uneducated selfish woman would want men to believe.
Just dump her and find yourself a nice woman.
2006-06-09 02:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋