i seem to always get myself into mess. my boyfriend says i always have my head up my rear, and no matter what i do its never right or done half way, i try i really do! no one seems to understand that.
2006-06-08 17:12:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You managed to write a coherent sentence so, obviously, you don't mess *everything* up. Start by finding better friends. There are more than enough toxic people in the world. You don't have to volunteer to be around them.
All the best
2006-06-08 17:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the real problem seems to be that your boyfriend doesn't appreciate you. Guys that tell their girlies off tend to become abusive after a while, So I might reccomend moving on.
Most people tend to be good at one or two things, and crap at most everything else. As a professional athlete, I would suck balls. As a professional Gardener, I could make almost as much as your average professional athlete.
You probably just haven't found your skills yet. Try different things. Remeber that you'll suck at everything the first time you try it. Pick a few things you weren't awful at, and try them again more often. Practice makes perfect.
2006-06-08 17:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have AADD, Adult Attention Deficit Disorder. This is not a new diagnosis, many people have this, and were subsequently badgered like you are. It's definately treatable, speak with your doctor to get tested and get some solutions to your everyday challenges. In the meantime, tell your boyfriend that he should stop being so rude, it's not like you're constantly telling him that he's an inadequate lover!
2006-06-08 17:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can really truley relate with you. I guess I was sooooo used to messing up and not doing things right that I try and ifs its not done right then yeah I get mad sometimes if anyone gives me crap but I think that if they do not like it the way I do it to not ask me. It hurts my feelings sometimes because then I never get asked to help but oh well. I guess thats how god made me and thats me. I bet some people wish that they could be like us!!!!!!!!!!Don't worry about it all the time its who god made you to be for a reason and if people don't like you for you then walk away from them and dont listen to them
2006-06-08 17:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, I know where you're coming from big time. First off people telling you you screw up or have your head in the clouds will not help the situation. For me, I stopped having these problems when I got older and my parents started letting me do things on my own. Maybe you need space to think things over yourself.
2006-06-08 17:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Rissa406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're okay -- just try not to focus on you mess up -- don't sweat the small stuff. Think about what u do do right and if you can't think of anything -- think about the fact that u are very unabsorbed with yourself -- and dump the guy who can't see your good -- he's not gonna make the situation any better.
2006-06-08 17:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is an important clue Anne. In the mammals the smartest member takes the longest to mature. Even Einstein was annoyingly dumb when young. But don't expect your mates to like you when you mature.
2006-06-08 17:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need a boyfriend that supports you?I feel sad for you. I think you need a hug and some understanding.Do you feel this way or is somebody telling you your that way?
2006-06-08 17:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i DUNNO, BUT U SOUND LIKE MY HUSBAND, I'VE STARTED CALLING HIM "CAN'T GET RIGHT", SIMPLY BECAUSE HE CAN'T GET RIGHT.
2006-06-08 17:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by shonmac1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋