i broke up with my ex 3 months ago. he kinda liked this girl (sam) a month later, then i wanted him back. now that i convinced myself it was over he calls to tell me he thinks he wants to get back together b/c he doesn't feel he's right for sam or vice versa. he says that i'm right for him b/c i've cared more then anyone else, including sam. i want to get back w/him...but idk. i don't want to feel like 'the second choice' or the 'back-up', even if i was first. he always told me i was right for him. what do you think i should do? i suppose i'm just letting my pride get in the way...
2006-06-08 17:06:05 · 6 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly i think he was testing limits with you. He might have really enjoyed what you had but wanted to make sure it was really right for him. After he dated the sam chick he realized that your the better choice and now might want to make it up to you. However if he's a jerk i'd drop him and move on, cuz he's just going to create more problems for you later on in life!!
2006-06-08 17:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by kansas2535 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you real love him and not just carin for him then yes i think so
but 2 make sure, dont put ur gaurd down until u know for show
he may had got dump and came back runin because he know u take him back.
2006-06-09 00:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i totally understand where your coming from. it kinda sounds like he didnt get wat he wanted withthe sam girl so he is settling for you. now dont get me wrong, im the type of girl who is all for second chances, but be careful dont let him hurt you again
2006-06-09 00:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say get back with him and if he breaks up with you again then u know its not meant to be
2006-06-09 00:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone deserves a second chance.
2006-06-09 00:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you bisexual because he wants both of you it's OK if that's your thing
2006-06-09 00:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by jamesd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋