what should a person think if you only knew a person for a lil over a month and this person goes and buys your children new bed room suits and a new living room suit is this person a keeper or could it be just that he is trying to buy my love
2006-06-08 17:03:09 · 16 answers · asked by just2bme28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's really trying to buy your love and expecting or hoping for something in return.
2006-06-08 17:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a lil over a month could it be love ? Maybe this person is just a really nice person , likes you and your kids alot and would like to show you something nice, or maybe this person thinks their helping you by buying you some things you may need. I would say say an absolute keeper, obviously kind, caring, and thoughtful , must have a huge heart to be so generous.
2006-06-08 17:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to care enough to want to nurture you and your family, but it might not be as genuine. It might be pity. Don't accept the gifts and see what he says and his reasoning for buying you things. Maybe it's the fact that he doesn't care for money as much as he does seeing you happy with things he thinks you need. Let him know where you stand and that these items don't replace the time you spend with him. This is more important. Everything else is just trivial.
2006-06-08 17:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be a guy who likes to buy the people he loves nice things... Maybe he doesn't know that you can show your love in other ways besides material items.
2006-06-08 17:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he really, really likes you...and i don't know how he could like you that much after one month, or he has too much money too spend. these are some warning signs. the guy is despartate and you're probably the first girl to pay him any attention in a long time.
2006-06-08 17:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if there are any strings attached --- get it in writing and once you do, say a gracious "Thank You" or write an eloquent thank you letter. I hope you really love this person and appreciate them.
2006-06-08 17:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he trying very hard to buy your love, and that a big mistake,
and it not good things for you to accept these very expensive
gifts, since you only know him a month, both need to slow down.
2006-06-08 17:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i said watch out .Good talking 2 U.
2006-06-08 18:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is unconfidant in himself so he thinks that you will only love him if he buys things for you and your children. this is most likely due from a previous relationship in which he was only loved when he spent his money on her
2006-06-08 17:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that they want the best things for you and your kids. When I moved in my with honey. I organized alot of stuff and bought things for his kids because I thought they needed them and they really did. It could be alot of different things. Talk to them!!!!!!
2006-06-08 17:09:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋