commitment has not come up with either- well it has that we dont want one. i am sexual with both with condoms. is this socially acceptable?
2006-06-08 16:36:08 · 17 answers · asked by plh2you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i have a frnd online who i talk to everyday [but no cybering] we might eventual;ly meet.
2006-06-08 16:38:42 · update #1
Absolutely excellent, however I suggest you do not take both guys at the same time as that may appear awkward...
2006-06-08 16:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by sharkman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!! you are dating--dating means more than one. The sex thing is a personal choice. I have done it, I will have to say I told them I was dating other people too, and wouldn't be waiting at home for there phone call. But it makes you more attached if you do have sex, especially if you like one more that the other. If you are looking at them as potential long term relationship people, no matter what was said. You will never know if either is what you are looking if you don't date. Sorta like buying a car, you have to test drive a few before you find one you like. You don't usually buy the first one. And don't settle for one you kinda like. Just dating once doesn't mean a committed relationship. I guess I am saying be honest with them to a degree. They don't have to know who. And for some reason it seems to make them more attentive if they think there is competition.
2006-06-08 23:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by cyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u mean seeing them at the same time as in a threesome, Im sure being guys they wouldn't mind. But if u mean date them both with either knowing about the ohter that could get risky. But as long as u can handle it and NOOOOOOOOOOOOO one finds out then I guess it's ok,
I feel u should not do this to either because someone is gonna end up hurt. And what I mean by hurt is hurt feeling a broken heart or broken bones, nose and or jawls
2006-06-08 23:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're single and ready to meet new people, so no, I don't think there is anything wrong with seeing two guys at once.
You said that you're not committed to either one, but if the subject comes up, you should be honest and tell them that you are seeing someone else.
And really, what is most important is that you're happy...
There are some prudes out there that will tell you that it is wrong to be with two guys, but do you really care what they think?
Ps- thumbs up for using protection. You can never be too careful.
2006-06-08 23:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a very similar situation. As long as everyone knows the rules of the game,(no commitment) I see no problem with it. Keep protecting yourself during sex. How else are you suppose to find the right guy, if you don't play the field. YOU GO GIRL!!!
2006-06-08 23:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by nascarhorselover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you happy go for it, as long as youre not committed to either of them and they both know youre not just seeing solely them. Just dont lie to anyone.
2006-06-08 23:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by big_daddy_man01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see as many guys as you want to at the same time but i would not recommend sleeping with them. Hate to find out that traded your marriage for aids.
2006-06-08 23:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by just wanna know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is relative to your perspective on sexuality and morality. And if you feel that this is wrong, than you probably should not do it. But if you don't feel bad and everybody involved knows, than have fun.
2006-06-08 23:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if it socially acceptable as long as you are safe and gettin some!
2006-06-08 23:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's okay. Play the field. Have fun.
2006-06-08 23:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋