2006-06-08 16:21:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you think that you shouldnt be going out with him dump his a$$
2006-06-08 16:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's pressuring you to do things that you don't want to do, if he constantly brings up subject (especially out of the blue), and if he gets angry with you if you don't want to have sex with him are big indicators.
Don't let him force you into things that you don't feel comfortable doing.
Take a look at some other posts by girls that were in a similiar situation. There are a number of girls on this board alone that have felt used after being pressured into having sex with a guy that wanted nothing to do with them afterwards.
If he cares about you, he'll won't mind waiting til you're both ready.
2006-06-08 23:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, that you are considering abstinence, and that you have been thinking alot about your future and that you arent sure that this is what you want right now in your life... if he understands then maybe he isnt afterall. If he is quick to question you, gets upset, or heaven forbid other things, you may find your answer that way. Im sure you are a wonderful person, and that he likes you for you. I hope everything works out.
2006-06-08 23:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by smilenbhappie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk through the door, does he demand sex? When he calls you to hang out, does he demand sex? If you can answer yes to both of these questions, then he only wants you for sex.
2006-06-08 23:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me old school but if you tell him you want to wait until your married and he leaves you know. If you already have had sex tell him you want to slow down and enjoy the romance (which you should anyway) and he leaves you know. If he only wants you for sex and you let him, no harm no foul, unless you tell him what you want you wont get it and well, frankly, you deserve what you do get.
2006-06-08 23:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by axeman76248 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know im kinda in that situation too
i like this guy and im ot sure if he likes me or just wants a booty call
but u should hang out with him somewhere like at the mall and just chill and see if he mentions sex or not and if he does he prolly is and if he doesnt then he might like u i hear that if a guy looks u in the eye and serious and sh it but iono just tryin to help u
good luck tho
2006-06-08 23:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any sexual relationship before marriage is for sex, both are involved and no commitment yet made except that, so cannot expect more
2006-06-08 23:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by kalabalu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he wants to have sex say no and see what he does!
2006-06-08 23:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by E-Reezy. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't have sex and see if it is really that and if he makes a big issue out of it then you know what to do.
2006-06-08 23:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, tell him you`ve decided that you don`t want to have sex anymore till after you`re married, and see how he reacts!
if he accepts that and goes along , or not, you`ll have your answer!!
2006-06-08 23:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex with him and see how he responds.
Simple, effective.
2006-06-08 23:25:30 · answer #11 · answered by soulinverse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋