My b/f and I are best friends ans are very close. We both have agreed that sex is to wait until after marriage. In the present, he keeps telling me he wants to be alone with me (i'm traveling). He doesn't want to do anything except makeout. I have never used tongue in making out and don't really want to, but he does. I'll give it a try but what in heck do you do with your tongue? How do you "please" your partner? Absolutley clueless! (NOTE: he knows I have never used tongue!)
2006-06-08 16:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know just how you feel. Before my first kiss, I was completely freaked out because I didn't have a clue what to do. And all the "how to kiss" articles in the teen magazines never gave any specific examples of what to actually do. I would say just be sure and wait till are you are totally comfortable and ready (but remember that the butterflies won't completely go away) and just make sure your boyfriend knows that you want to, but you're nervous, and ask him to go slow.
That being said, I'll try my hand at a couple tips. Like someone else said, it's basically like exploring the other person's mouth. Start with normal kisses, gradually open your mouth as you go (not like you're yelling or anything, but just like you're breathing with your mouth open), and just put your tongue in his mouth (do it relatively gently tho) and just kinda run your tongue in circles around his tongue. Once you do it a few times, you'll just kinda pick it up.
And also, if you're serious about not having sex before marriage (which I think is great) be sure and set well-defined rules and boundaries because once you start making out, it's incredibly easy to want to go father and you probably won't think of anything but that. Don't trust that you'll know what's too far when you get to it, because it definitely doesn't work that way. Some rules you might wanna try are limiting where hands and kisses are allowed, not being alone for prolonged periods of time, always keeping the door open, etc.
Believe me, I know it's scary as crap, but it really is not that big of a deal, I promise.
2006-06-08 16:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by pandasage1221 3 · 18⤊ 1⤋
Awesome that yous are waiting til marriage for sex! And just go with the flow pretty much. If you're uncomfortable at first, let him take the lead. You're basically "exploring" his mouth with your tongue, but that just seems kinda crude to me lol.
2006-06-08 16:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by lettuceisgreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it like kissing however your mouth is open wider luke in films and also you st your tinge and simply transfer it. attempt to spell your identify but when you do not desire to visit some distance considering that first time dnt cross to deep. it might be convenient of nobody round and it simply comes natirally
2016-09-08 22:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't do anything. you let him show you by french kiss you. Once he kisses you you'll know what too do. He's the guy he'll show you. Just relax and everything falls into place.
2006-06-08 16:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to french kiss is to use your tounge,to make out might lead to sex which you are waiting to leave out until marriage so becarefull
2006-06-08 16:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww just massage his tongue with yours.. practice on your hands or something until you find something you like!
2006-06-08 16:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by summer_dawn7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't need make up u suck face thats how
2006-06-08 16:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the time is right you will know.
2006-06-08 16:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. err. well s-h-i-t i never thought about it. it just kinda hapens. do what feels good.
2006-06-08 16:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by drunkredneck45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him teach you...
2006-06-08 16:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋