Here's the deal. I have a family member that will believe everyones rumors, but will never ask you the truth. On the slight chance that they do ask the truth, you never get an apology. They will call you a hundred times a day, so when you don't get a call at all, that's the only way you know they are mad. Usually it's for something completly off the wall or stupid.
They also want equality within the family. Instead of the same amount of gifts at Christmas, it has to be the same $$. I could care less how much a gift costs!! But, when it comes to academics and sports, they keep everything about their kid in the dark, and don't want your kids participating in the same thing. Your kid can't call their kids friend over to play, but their kid sure can call your kids friends....silliness!!!
I have NEVER seen a person so hateful and vindictive. And this is to their own blood. They say they can't stand people like that, well, they must not like themselves very much!
2006-06-08 16:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
People that are insecure or not happy with themselves usually jump at the chance to pick at another and use petty arguments to make a fight. The longer they think about you , the less they have to look at theirselves. Unfortunatly people like this seldom change but never let there @#*! get to you and dont let there unbalanced life& undying attept to bring your self-esteem as low as theirs. Just know what goes around , comes around. Good luck :)
2006-06-08 16:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People like to believe rumors because they are more interesting then the truth, that is why they don't ask. These are the type that I stay away from. Because you she I would be right in there face telling them about there shelf. You are right about the gift thing. It shouldn't have nothing to do with the cost of the gift it is the thought behind it. As far as kids playing the same sport, I wouldn't give a D-- what they though if my kids want to play he would play what ever they wanted to. This person sounds like they are so miserable in there own life they want you to be miserable to. I would tell this person what I though about them and stay away. You don't need no one like that in your life. Life is hard enough as it is. I had a T- Shirt once that said "Life is a bed of rose's but watch out for the pricks"
2006-06-08 23:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by letitbeyou1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, many people are apathtic about the information they spread/believe. I too, have friends that believe every rumor they hear. It gets annoying, how people can have the time to sit through and memorize all the nonsense people are spreading, and they can't even check to see if thsi info is even the least bit true. i'm sorry, but just because "Suzy's cousin's half brother's niece by marriage" said it, doesn't make it true. there is not enough backup information for me to believe that.
2006-06-08 23:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by rors 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny, this person seems to remind me of my father. But people are people. We're really too lazy to look for the truth, and also sometimes too embarassed to. Talk to this family member, explain what you see is going on. Perhaps they don't realize that they are this way.
2006-06-08 23:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
becoz rumor is 50% true and 50% false, it starts when communication stops ,guys get curios and start to speculate insearch for the truth, the best thing is to keep shut ya mouth and never utter anywad ok, then it wil be orite
2006-06-08 23:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by KEVO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From all the details, it sounds like it's time to let that relationship fade away. Keep your children away from this destructive force, or they will see how you relate to your family and they will learn to relate to eachother like that too. My mother had poor relationships with her sisters, and it seeped into my life with my sisters. I do not want my kids to have this sick syndrome, so I quit communicating with the one sister who is poisoned the worst. Just tell your kids, sorry hun, we don't have time, we have lots to do. Just kinda make sweet excuses to keep them away from that venom.
2006-06-08 23:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people love drama if it were not so TV and Movies would not exist, nor any form of any magazine dealing with anyone....we love gossip we love to dwell in others lives cause sometimes our own lives are so boring
2006-06-08 23:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetblonde 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was once told that there was some truth behind every rumor..maybe she/he believes that.
2006-06-08 23:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sum ppl dont go 2 dah source b-cuz their SHY... but sum ppl keep spreaden them n dey DO knoe dah truth. which is caused by hate, revenge, excitment or joy...?
2006-06-08 23:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is better to just let it go.
2006-06-08 23:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋