my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 1yr and 6mos. we know each other by now. well, last night i was in the mood for sex(had sex tuesday and he didn't provide what i needed).so he told me that he was busy because he is in summer school trying to get his jr year of college out of the way.then he thought about it and then he decided to come over. i told him not to because he was busy and he had to study.i all of a sudden became stupid and stubborn beacuse i was thinking of him.he then told me that if i didn't the chance he was giving,that it would be a while befor we had sex again.i still told him no because it is a good 15-20 min.to get to my house and he still had tons of homework and studying. as he gave me a last chance,he told me that i'm getting on his nerves and that i wanted somebody else(meaning that i wanted to break up, that's not the case).then he said **** it and **** you. what does this mean? did i do something wrong. am i wrong 4 thinking about his future?
2006-06-08 15:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by freemangoddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that he wanted to please you and make you happy but you refused. He probably got frustrated because he loves you so much he was going to take time out of his important studdytime and be with you. Just sit down and talk to him.
2006-06-08 16:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by dplynch1909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you did nothing wrong except have a poor choice of words. secondly, he didn't do anything wrong except get frustrated. Having been on both sides of this situation before, I can say "No worries" Just remember when it comes to guys...
K.I.S.S. that's all you need to remember. :-) If your really meant to be together, you'll BOTH put the time into talking things out. Just remember, guys and girls have different perspectives.
Good Luck.
2006-06-08 23:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by blackwolf917 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not wrong! You just said it wrong. Tell him that you want to have him think of his career. Reasure him, even tease him about being jealous. Ask him if h e thinks you are worth being jealous over. Tell him you will gtive him a big reward if does good on hois exam...
2006-06-08 23:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by coolcat123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just sit down with him and explain to him your vision of things. Show him that you care about his future. He probably tried to think you were getting smart when you said that after he said it.
2006-06-08 23:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being a typical girl and rejected him after he changed his mind.
In his mind you set him up to reject him bc your feelings were hurt that he didnt immediately run over.
Which you probably did bc your feelings were hurt.
2006-06-08 23:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummmm you said all the wrong things. You need to tell him that sorry if you really want him.........
2006-06-08 23:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are stubborn. they do things for no reason and then automatically apologize. it'll pass...and no, you did nothing wrong. lol
2006-06-08 23:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Christinexoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he dont want u nomore
2006-06-08 23:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by bianca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-08 23:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by getrdone4006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋