my grand- daughter has been kept away from her dads family, because of issues between her mother and my son. when confronting my ex-daughter-in-law with this, she always blames my son or me. isnt it time she woke up to what she is doing to my grand-daughter.? she is being so selfish to gain, what she thinks are pay- backs.
2006-06-08 15:58:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ohhhhhhh boy do I know just what you are talking about.... I am going thru the same thing and about a few others too.... I have all sons so I am getting it from all sides...... these girls hold those babies over our heads, and use them to get their own way..... what do we do ? Husband and I are thinking of going to a lawyer and getting our grand parents rights , legal visitation rights, so we can see our little grand son who we have not seen since Thanksgiving and it is now June...... we also may have to do this with the other mothers, they make threats all the time to with hold the child from us if we do not cave in to their demands..... It is hard I know..... look into the rights of the grandparents in YOUR state and find a good lawyer..... it may take a lot of money and a lot of time, but at least when that child or children are older they will know you did not forget about them or think they were not worth the fight,..... if you ever find the answer to your question I would like to know too....... How things like this happen is beyound me....... all they are are brats, spoiled little brats who have no sense of respect for us...... that is about what it amounts to...... dont ya think ?????? God bless
2006-06-08 16:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seems that grandparents do have the right to see their grandchildren. In some cases this is good--but in others it is not. Sometimes a mother wants to get her children totally away from all the bad influences they have experienced in the past.
2006-06-08 23:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Terri C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By LAW as a grandparent you have the right to see your grand kids something like once a month. Get it forced by a court order if you have to.
2006-06-08 23:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does need to wake up. My parents got divorsed 2 years ago. My dad waited exactly how long he could to get married. I still see my grandparents. I am at my dads when my mom works and my dads job is in the town that i live in. I love going to my dads. My parents have issues but they dont talk. Try having your grandduaghter coming to your house i mean what issues can she have with you.
2006-06-08 23:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, when families are split apart, there are many 'victims'...I hope that they will one day be reunited!
2006-06-08 23:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋