i sent email to my boy friend, proposed breaking up since his attitudes toward our relation really bother me. In his reply, he appologized for things he has done and let me know the reasons.
At the end of his email " but we can be friends OR ? "
What does he mean by OR? What does he think? What should I do ??
2006-06-08 15:48:02 · 12 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him?
2006-06-08 15:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by summer_dawn7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT WAS AFTER THE OR?IF YOU PROPOSED A BREAK-UP AND HE EXCEPTED...... THEN WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? "OR" IS THE PROBLEM THAT YOU STILL WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND HE'S JUST BEEN ACTING LIKE AN "***" LATELY. IF HE'S GIVEN YOU "EXCEPTABLE" REASONS AND YOU DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THEM THEN MAYBE YOU TWO SHOULD RECONSIDER GETTING BACK TOGETHER. IF HIS REASONS WERE UNEXCEPTABLE AND YOU DON'T FEEL IT'S SOMETHING THAT CAN BE FIXED, YOU TWO NEED TO GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS FOR THE TIME AND MAYBE LATER ON YOU CAN TALK ABOUT BEING STILL REMAINING FRIENDS.
2006-06-08 22:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by MRLETSB4REAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or you can get back together. In my experience you cant be friends with an ex, someone is always more hurt than the other. Just stick with breaking up.
2006-06-08 22:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE ACCEPTED YOUR PROPOSAL TO BREAK UP WITH HIM. BUT HE WANTS YOU TO BE HIS FRIEND AFTER YOUR BREAK UP. WELL, BEING FRIENDS AFTER A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IS NORMAL TO MATURED PEOPLE. BUT I KNOW YOU WERE HURT BY THOSE WORDS.
YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT HE WANTED TO SET YOU FREE WITH HIS NONCHALANT ATTITUDE REGARDING YOUR RELATIONSHIP. IT'S GOOD THAT HE APOLOGIZED FOR HIS SHORTCOMINGS BUT THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP GO ON. APOLOGY WAS WHAT HE GAVE YOU BUT HE DID NOT WANT YOU TO CONTINUE AS LOVERS. THAT WAS AN OUTRIGHT TELLING YOU TO SAY GOODBYE TO EACH OTHER. ACCEPT IT GRACEFULLY WITH THE HOPE THAT THERE WOULD BE BETTER TOMORROWS FOR YOU WITHOUT HIM. LOOK AROUND YOU FOR SOMEHOW, SOMEONE OUT THERE WITH PROMISES OF TRUE LOVE AWAIT YOU. LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND USE THIS EXPERIENCE TO MAKE YOU A BETTER AND MORE MATURED WOMAN. SMILE!
2006-06-08 22:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to want you to answer the question. YOU HAVE THE BALL.If you want to give him a second chance set some ground rules if he breaks them , dump the chump.
2006-06-08 22:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or means; maybe he wants to take back all the dumb things he said or did, and maybe he wants to know if you and he can start off fresh
2006-06-08 22:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by runner45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to your conviction and break off with him....you can remain friends if you want..never mind about the or.....
2006-06-08 22:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the or mean we can be friends or not! most likely it DOESNT mean get back together it means or not be friends!
2006-06-08 22:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can be friends or not?
OR what?
OR maybe still hang around sometimes when Im not busy shagging my new GF.
2006-06-08 22:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or back together is what OR means.
if you still like him go back with him
2006-06-08 22:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his *** he is playing games
2006-06-08 22:52:12 · answer #11 · answered by vasqdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋