This girl and I have a flirty friendship. We have been good friends for a long time, but lately she seems to have become more flirty. I backed off a bit and stopped talking to her as much, but now she had her sister ask me if I am mad at her. I am not mad at her, but I am confused about whether we are friends or more in her mind. I do not want to send the wrong signals, but now she thinks I am mad. Does she like me or something, or does she just want to know?
2006-06-08 15:46:23 · 11 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she really likes u... if u like her i would take the chanch and try to get with her some time
2006-06-08 15:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has obviously has sent you signs that she wants to become 'steady' with you.
You either not seeing the signs, or not wanting to see the signs, have ignored her signs. Hence the sister's intervention, and the girls crushed feelings thinking that you're mad at her.
The question slugger, is what are you going to do about it now? What's your feelings for this girl?
If you want to see her. Then I would suggest that you go to her and let her know what an idiot you've been for missing her signs. Don't even get in to the argument of, "Well why didn't you just say so", because it will not get you anywhere. Just tell her that you've been and idiot and move on with your new relationship.
If you don't want to see her, then you need to tell her. Ignoring her will only make matters worse. Be quick, but be very kind about it.
Personally, I hope you go with her. Flirting women who really like you are hard to find.
Best of luck.
2006-06-08 23:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from stepping up the flirtation and caring what you think and feel, I'd say 'Yes!" she is interested in persuing more than just a friendship. Talk to her. After all, you two are friends right?!
2006-06-08 22:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like she wants to be or thinks you are more than friends! The only way to find out is to ask. just depends on what you want out of it. My best advice is to ask. It may seem akward to ask...but it is the best way to find out in my opinion.
2006-06-08 22:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by Tda11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur flirting one second then ignoring her then shes definately going to feel weird and jump to conclusions. she likes u and it probably scared her, maybe u need to let her no u dont feel that way
2006-06-08 22:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by DownWithTheSickness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you, just ask her out if you like her too, or back right off if you dont.
2006-06-08 22:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She thinks theres more to the flirting
2006-06-08 22:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by joeyscorpse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may i ask you who you are and what is your name because i'm mixed up because that sort of sounds like me and this one guy
2006-06-08 22:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by cheyanneonehare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask her? sometimes people just could not control and over flirt....
2006-06-08 22:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man dont u see it? she really likes u man...
2006-06-08 22:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋