I read in magazines, TV shows, etc., how to please a woman how to keep her happy, etc. What about what we want? Society always center everything around a woman and what makes her happy. We have needs to, we want to tell women what we want but it never gets publicized and put into the media, heard on the street, and so forth. Females are spoiled, us males never get spoiled from the opposite sex. What guys want we want to be spoiled and babied too. I'm a tough guy, however, I like the attention too. Do females care that we have needs too or is it a one way street and is it all about you all? All give for us and you all just take? Females let me know if I'm wrong for seeing like this but everywhere we go it's all about the females and how to please them. I'm not talking about just sex either, i'm talking about everything.
2006-06-08 15:26:22 · 9 answers · asked by Shawn J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I totally agree with you
2006-06-08 15:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see where you're coming from and I guess it depends on how you look at things. To you it seems as if everything is about girls and how to make them happy, and you may feel pressured to keep up with all of that. On the girls' side, there's pressure from the media to stay thin, look great all the time, etc, and they make us feel that we aren't desirable if we don't look like Nicole Kidman or Angelina Jolie (first two people I could think of!). So nothing's really perfect.
But to answer your question, there are some things out there that focus on what guys want. Next time you are in a grocery store, look at the headlines on the women's magazine like Cosmo. There are always titles such as "How to please you guy" or "10 things to drive him wild". It's not the best example but it's out there, it's just not as widely publicized.
Any girl who believes everything is about her is not worth your time. There are shallow girls out there who thinks they are the centre of the universe, just like there are shallow guys who think if a girl isn't a supermodel she isn't worth a second glance. But there are plenty of nice girls out there who will be more than happy to spoil you. And odds are you will want to spoil her. It is a two way street and any healthy relationship will be a nice balance between both of you giving each other what the other person needs.
2006-06-08 22:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to cook for and pamper my bfs but then it's seen as clingy so shut up and stop whining.
2006-06-08 22:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by whatwhatwhat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls don't really care. It's all about them. I know there are girls out there who do care tho.
2006-06-08 22:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females are normally more demanding . . .but i do see your point
2006-06-08 22:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that. some of us actually want to please men. not just physically but emotionally, mentally as well.
2006-06-08 22:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you date down or up...
2006-06-08 23:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah! i wanna know that too.
2006-06-08 22:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone is like that
2006-06-09 01:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋