2006-06-08 15:03:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why not?
2006-06-08 15:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I would and still want too. my reason it doesn't matter if he or she has kid, it the kind of person that person is on the inside. Are they good and kind hearted. Do they take care kid as well as possible. those all sign of good and well brought up person! But you must ask yourself are you ready for this kid to be a big part of your life? Do you love this kid with all your heart? Are you willing give up your freedoms and help raise this child like it was your own. Would you devote your life to this child and him or her. Do you love her and the child. If the answer yes then marry her and if the answer no then not ready to be a mom or dad, husband or wife. In my case I know love her and I know I love andrea and that I would walk though the pits of hell and back for her. I hope this helps
Daniel
2006-06-08 15:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. I did. And I will again (to someone different since my ex and I divorced). When you love someone, you love everything about them--kids, their past, etc. The kids are a part of them. They come as a package deal or not at all. So, why not marry someone with kids, unless you don't like kids. Then it wouldn't be a good idea.
2006-06-08 16:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously contemplating marrying someone who has a child and you're asking this question, then I say don't marry them. If I was in the particular situation, I would if I was in love with the person. Would I marry them just because they have a child, no. Would I not marry them just because they had a child, no. It all depends on how you feel about the person.
2006-06-08 16:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by angelbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You marry with a person because you love each other.
You love a person, then you would care what her care.
You love a person, her family also your family.
Her son? Is also your son.
If you really love someone, want to marry with her, the kid would not be a matter.
Why not?
2006-06-08 15:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by QBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently, alot of people marry people who already have kids, and do just fine. but it could go the other way if the kid/s are real monsters. better know the perosn ans any kids involved real well.
2006-06-09 12:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dependes, u must be resdy to live with another person. A kid takes jard work and you must be dependable as a father role if u plan on getting married BEST OF LUCK BUT GO FOR IT!!
2006-06-08 15:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by littlemisssunshine(; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Do you love this pserson? Are you capable of caring for these children? If you still haven't any real reason not to, then I'd personally say go for it! What have you got to lose except for a life experience with your possible future...
2006-06-08 15:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days you will your find that the person you are going to marry have children don;t let that stop you from marring him get know his child. I would
2006-06-08 15:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by cmaymay26facaringperson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cause If for some reason I couldn't have children it would be okay cause their is a child still there that needs to be taken care of. And you can be a mom without being biological.
2006-06-08 15:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and I sure would never do that again. I am not cut out to be a father and now know it.
....I do think a man had better think about it a lot before thinking of marriage.
2006-06-08 15:15:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋