Sup everybody i have an angry issue. i tried to deal with it on my own. but it seems to be getting the best of me. i got so angry i tired to kill my friend litterly i said i was sorry and he forgave me. i told my mom about it and i getting help this monday. i want help but i'm scared of what people will think of me later and life.
2006-06-08 14:49:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You have an internal rage that needs to be addressed. Help doesn't mean you have to have pills. There are anger management classes, counseling and therapy as well as learning to control your emotions. Support .groups
Hobbies such as karate, yoga and tia chi are also good as they teach you how to control your anger and learn self respect.
Learning to control your anger and hate is an improvement that will be welcomed in the future and those who know you in the future will be glad to know that you learned.
People are amazed to find out that my nickname used to be TAZ.
2006-06-21 16:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
YES...of course anger can kill, How many men, women, and even children die everyday because someones anger is out of control? So many you could never imagine. Some see men that are "tough" and "rough" as normal cuz they are guys but "snapping" and almost killing a friend is NOT normal, I'm glad you were able to see that. As for pursuing mental health help, please ignore anyone who would make fun of it. If they do then they just don't understand. You will be a much better person for having dealt with it for the rest of your life. Take this from someone who knows, who has been there, and am glad I did go.
2006-06-21 14:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by mysticalflyingsquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! better yet whoa! this is a serious issue! why do you allow anger to control your entire being? I think its awesome that you realize you need help! however, you shouldn't be scared of what people will think of you later in life, you should be scared where you will end up later in life! jail or six feet under! no judgments here though! anger issues can be resolved with effective therapeutic methods. Seek help! I'm positive your mom will support you. Good luck! remember, you are in control of you no matter who or what gets you angry.
2006-06-22 08:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by ms. mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will all be ok. You realize you have anger issues and are willing to get help for them. Telling your mom was the right thing to do. Things blow over. People won't even remember the incident in a few weeks. What they WOULD remember is if you didn't get help and continued to act out. You are doing the right thing. If you get the help you need and stay on track with it...nobody will ever have to know that you used to have a problem. Don't be embarrassed, be proud of yourself for seeking help.
2006-06-15 17:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people may think. You've recognized that you have a serious problem, and are going to deal with it in therapy. What you're doing takes alot of courage and self-awareness. Be proud that you've taken the first step by acknowledging your problem. Now, follow through with the treatment. Perhaps someday, you'll be able to help someone in a similar situation. Best of luck!
2006-06-22 11:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost averyone has got angry with something in their life. The thing is we have to know how to express our emotion. Sometimes, we may hurt other people physically or emotionally during the process of releasing our feelings. So, basically I will think before I tend to hurt other people....Just try to think how to let others know the feeling you are in at that moments. That's all I can give. Good luck.
2006-06-08 14:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by sillysally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, anger can kill.
It takes a lot of courage to get help. It's hard not to worry about what other people think. If someone can't understand why you'd get help, then they are not worth having in your life. Or, if that argument doesn't help you, just imagine what people will think of you if you don't get help and end up really hurting someone else or yourself.
Good luck.
2006-06-21 14:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting help is the right thing to do .At least you recognize you have a problem.Taking care of your issues are far more important than you worrying about what other people may think of you or perceive you.Your mental,emotional and physical health is more important!
2006-06-22 11:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by bubblin'21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry what other people think you are the courageous one here getting help to figure out why you are so angry is a good step. and if your friend is really a friend he will support your decision in doing this. you will thank your mom and yourself later for getting the help you need!!!
2006-06-15 21:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about later in life. Get the help NOW and go from there.
A lot of people have dark secrets that they do not want others to know, because of what people will think.
Get the help and get yourself okay......the hell with what people think.
I think it is great if a people is aware of their problem and seek help.
2006-06-22 06:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by calvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋