What am I doing wrong?

Question

I've never been asked out and it's starting to worry me... I can't figure out what I am doing wrong!
I am confident and happy with who I am, but I need help!!!

Answer 1

Just be patient. It doesn't hurt to be a little proactive by starting conversations with guys. Be careful of your body language. Sometimes when a woman is obviously confident, then guys see it as arrogance or money grubbing. If you play hard to get, don't do that yet until you have more experience. Mostly, don't be in a rush, because then you can wind up doing something (or someone) you regret.

Answer 2

Maybe you feel confident,but do you look confident. Maybe you show make a move,and talk to somebody. I mean the guys aren't always gonna come to the girl,you gotta make a move too. If you really want a date,talk to a guy,get to know him,you know those things. You're not doing anything wrong I don't think,maybe the guys are doing something wrong cause they're not asking you out when they should be,so don't worry,I'm sure someone will come to you.Good-luck.

Answer 3

I fo you're so confident and happy, then why are you so hard on yourself. Just because you see all these other girls get asked out by guys doesn't mean that you never will. I felt the same way. And guess what happened. I had a crush on a guy so i finally took a risk and asked him out. he said yes. it turns out that he liked me all along. Now i'm not saying that's what's going to happen to you. but what i'm saying is, it feels sooooo much better to wait and find the perfect one, or one of the perfect ones, than to be like the popular girls and only go out with a guy that you barely like for a month. i mean seriously. out of all of my growing up i only saw one popular girl stay with her Jock boyfriend for more than a year. all the other ones broke up after a few weeks.

Answer 4

1. Believe you can do it. You are lovely, there are so many people out there, there has to be some who like you!

2. Ask you friend if they like the way you dress, you make up, your hairstyle and get suggestions and advice

3. Create opportunities, go out there and meet peole, Go to the mall, go to the gym, go out. Make as many friends as possible, including females, they are your network can lead to opportunities . If guys don't ask you out, ask them, what you have to lose?

Answer 5

First how old are u? if in early teens don't worry. U will date soon enough. If older just be your self &the right one will snatch you up. U sound very cute so stop trying so hard & enjoy life.

Answer 6

maybe it's nothing you are doing wrong...plus you have to think, this is 2006..if you see an attractive, single guy, ask him out...they have the same concerns you would have so just gather your nerve and do it...or maybe you're not making yourself available when you are out...look at the things you do

Answer 7

Nothing! be over cofident always smile to yourself on the inside and tell yourself you are beautiful hold your head up high and you'll have men falling all over you.

Answer 8

Maybe you're attractive. Men are intimidated by attractive women for fear of being rejected. So that means you have to up your game and get agressive.

Answer 9

you better ask the guy out instead. The guy might be waiting for you to tell him how you feel towards him and then he will ask you out.

Answer 10

maybe you should ask out somebody. sometimes people are just shy. some people figure they have no chance so they don't try.