I would love it if a guy could answer this!
2006-06-08 14:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sooo basically guys are insecure about themselves? well i know how they feel! i have never had a bofriend treat me right! and when i finally do think the guy i like likes mw back he says he dosnt like me THAT way and we should just be friends! then the next day he is flirting with me! wtf??
2006-06-08 17:13:10 · update #1
I'm a guy. It's hard because you don't want to mess up something that could be a potential go. Why don't you put yourself in our shoes.... We aren't sure if you like us in return (perhaps you already have a boyfriend), we're nervous because we probably think that you're out of our league and so on...... It would be easier if you let us know how you feel first. then we would be alot more comfortable telling you how we feel.
2006-06-08 16:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the reason is because guys can't describe the way the way they feel about u bc they don't think like that. They like to flirt alot and don't kno how to do stuff b/c some of them were never taught.
2006-06-08 21:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny.. i have the same thing with my girlfriend and every one is asking me to read Men from Mars and Women from Venus..
anyhoo.. men are more decisive than women, they do not run easily when they are cornered..
just tell him i need u and i like u.. do u need me and do u like me? or love me?..
your guy is probably shy.. but shy people have the rep to be the most kind and faithful..
remember that !!
2006-06-08 21:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weak is close. We are scared of saying the wrong things and getting rejected. Besides, our parents don't teach us what to say! So we go around mumbling like batman.
2006-06-08 21:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weak
2006-06-08 21:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is the same way. Drives me insane. One day he's holding me and telling me he loves me and the next, he's saying he can't handle a relationship.
2006-06-08 22:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Yukina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just how guys are,they confuse us. I hate that too,I don't know why they can't be straight about it,and just come with it.They have to give off mixed signals,it's annoying.
2006-06-08 21:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys are guys they don't like to be rejected so they might as well keep their feelings to themselves.they're scared of our thoughts and reactions.guys try to act all tuff and cool so they won't look like idiots but they're idiots if theyrenot brave enough to show their feelings.i wish all guys could be brave and not scared.
2006-06-08 21:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are not sure of ourselves sometimes and what your reaction maybe. Talk to the guy like a casual talk and see how he reacts. If you see in his eyes and reaction that he seems shy and smiling, he is a go. He likes you.
2006-06-08 21:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are from Mars. Martians speak a different language.
2006-06-08 21:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋