My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 3 months now. He is 17 and im 16. He calls me Perfect. And he says that he could see himself spending the rest of his life with me. Its only been three months. Is it supposed to be this serious this fast? He is my first boyfriend.
2006-06-08 13:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it depends. If you both really love each other than its ok. But if you feel uncomfortable then just make sure to tell him that you want him to step off just a little.
If he really loves you he will understand.
2006-06-08 14:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by saddleclub_cowgirl145 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just puppy love you will see the difference when you are older. I used to be the same way, but the fact of the matter is that you will change and so will he. That doesn't mean that you can't be happy together, it is just that you guys will change and most likely feel different about eachother later on in life. It could also be that he just wants to get into your pants. Watch out for that trick!
2006-06-08 20:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel the same, then it is getting too serious too quickly. However, my husband and I started dating at 16 and have now been married for 7 happy years. Just do what feels right. If he is kind of freaking you out, let him know.
2006-06-08 21:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no it isn't. there is nothing wrong with dating but holy crap. anything that starts fast ends faster. he BARELY FREAKIN KNOWS YOU. and trust me, you can't really know someone until you've been around them for a few years. this is why most people are engaged for a few years before they get married. preferrably after they've dated around. the reason for that is so you can find out what type of guy you like best. there are millions of guys out there and all of them are different. some are nice and some are not. but you should see if there are other guys that you might like better before you throw yourself into the arms of your first bf. that would scare the **** out of me if someone told me they loved me after only 3 months. i mean, HOW COULD THEY KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT ME YET?!?! so if they don't really know you yet, WHAT ARE THEY BASING THIS DECISION ON?!?!?!?!?1
2006-06-08 21:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by heaven_and_earth_in_7_days 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath.
16 - too young to make life long decisions.
3 months - too short a time to decide under any circumstances.
first boyfriend - yikes! step back....find someone less intense....
Give yourself a chance to learn about love....you have a long time yet.
2006-06-08 21:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anurri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both way too young to be so serious. Ask him to back off a little. You both have to take it alot slower.
2006-06-08 21:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It maybe love or it can be that because he if your first boyfriend you are takeing it serious.
2006-06-08 21:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Eve911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, it called infatuation.when someone better comes along, it will be over.
2006-06-08 20:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by sweetiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋