I feel pretty crushed. Although, my friend doesn't like the guy back and she isn't allowed to date until she is 17. But I still feel pretty bad that he picked her over me. How do I get over this??
2006-06-08 13:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by jeslygoldberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you have to understand that not everything in life is perfect. anyway, it is still OK that you can still like him. it's not like your friend said yes right? you never know how things are going to turn out in the future. i mean the next ime, he could be asking YOU out!
2006-06-08 13:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by bexluvsoccer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I kind of have that problem too. This guy at school he was really hot and I had a big crush on him. But he asked out another girl my worst enemy and she is just a little player but he doesn't know that so the next thing I got into a fight with and guess what he asked me out...
2006-06-08 20:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, life can be pretty tough. All you can do is try to get to know him better, maybe you can win his heart. Ive been in the same situation many times. Maybe if he goes out with her, then you might be able to become friends with him, then if they happen to break up you can take a shot at him. Sometimes guys arent what you think they arent until you know them better. Find out what hes like inside before you get a broken heart. Someday you might find out he was never what you were looking for. i know it might seem like hes really important to you, and that youd be happier with him, and my advice might seem dumb, but you should learn more about him before you make any decisions. Talk to your friend about it, maybe she can put in a good word for you or help you out a little. Im a boy, and im only 14, but i know whats its like to feel crushed, im kind of in the same situation right now. I hope things get better for you.
2006-06-08 20:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy way to get over it. She find out all the bad things about it and be glad that you're not dating him! It'll take sometime.. also try not to listen to emotional music as it'll only dampen your spirits. Try to go out with your other friends, like watch a movie or have a party to keep your mind of that idiot.
2006-06-08 20:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself noticed, stop beating yourself over the head. Maybe he didn't notice qualities about you if you are shy. I would bet that if you opened yourself up a bit and invited him to a concert, a movie, or even a restuarant, you can learn more about each other.
2006-06-08 20:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by thedailybs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows that you like him thats messed up...but if he didn't know than you cant blame him. Its good that you have a friend that wouldnt do you dirty and go out with him knowing that you like him. This one of the things that you have to look at like, " It wasnt meant to be, and it was nobodys fault" then move on.
2006-06-08 20:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by honeybuns8489 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should kick them both in the shins then go home and write dark poetry.
2006-06-08 20:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by queenofitall94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get over it..theres plenty more fishes in the sea...lol, my mother told me that
2006-06-08 20:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, does your frd know you like him? if she was a true frd and didnt like him, she wouldnt go out with him. if she does like him, then YOU should be happy for them.
2006-06-08 20:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by blackclover223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... relax ... guys don't stay interested in one girl for more than a few days ... you'll probably be next ... you have to wait for it ...
2006-06-08 20:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Santa's Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋