My husband and I were having a big argument, and I have been going through postpartim depression, so I've been a little wacky. I was so upset that he went to my parents for advice. My sister is over there at the time. She didn't have her car so my husband gave her a ride home. My sister offers him to stay the night, or in fact stay the night anytime we are fighting. I think this is odd, because they barely know each other and she knows my husband does not like her cause she borrowed money from him and never payed it back. I thought this was in poor taste, and tacky, even though she claims she would have stayed with a friend if he had stayed at her house. Am I wrong? Also that same day I had asked her if I could stay with her, cause I didn't want to be alone. She said yeah, I guess, but had a put out look on her face, which showed that she didn't really want me too. Also he didn't end up staying there and said he thought it was wierd too.
2006-06-08 12:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah but it is odd that your sister would invite your husband over. When things cool down a bit talk to your husband about it, not your sister. See what he says.
2006-06-08 13:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that you should be mad at your sister, but what she did was inappropriate and wrong. The problems you and your husband are yours--try talking to someone who's neutral. Marriage counseling or something. Good luck to you and your husband. Hope things work out.
2006-06-08 13:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by gzmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it is weird to. Tell your sister that she has no rights asking your husband to stay at her place whenever you guys are fighting cause it could only lead to problems.
2006-06-08 13:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's plain. ur sister loves ur husband. she doesn't want you around to see what she does with him. just ask ur sister why she did what she did and express ur feelings. she will probably lie and the truth is always better. so give ur hints that she likes ur husband and in conclusion, if she is a good sister, she'll admit it. comfort her and tell her that the guy will come for her sooner or later.
2006-06-08 13:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lavender L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things to consider:
Does your sister watch a lot of Jerry Springer?
Are you rednecks?
If the answer to both of those questions is no, then I tend to belive its okay, rather he be there with her someone you trust tham somewhere where you have no idea of where he is or what he is doing...
2006-06-08 13:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she offers your husband to stay the night? i'd be pretty angry too if i were you. that doesn't sound right.
2006-06-08 13:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by lockandload008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋