2006-06-08 12:38:55 · 21 answers · asked by Vikki H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's either exerting his authority, being overly possessive or acting immaturely. If you're in the middle of a break-up, I suggest that you seek the advice of legal counsel who's experienced in these matters.
2006-06-08 12:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by cybersleuth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are so strange sometimes...why do they have to be so macho? Being macho does not make a man better than everyone else, he has to realize that being a man means being a kind and honorable person, and that women work just as hard as men. Maybe he should get some counseling.
2006-06-08 19:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what happened to 50/50....I can't say to much, because somethings in marriage are seperate from my husband, but most of the time everything is 50/50...we both have incomes, we both pay bill, we both own what we purchase together, however what ever I had before our marriage I clearly made a point to let him know they are mine. no if's, and or but's about it...
2006-06-08 19:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by tweeterbird73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't be frightened at it but I suggest you sit him down and have a humane and realistic talk with him. If he fails to listen to that, then you must get more serious about and take straight up with him. If he tries to hurt you in anyway for doing this, then contact 911 immediately.
2006-06-08 19:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Pointman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you married him for him, and not his stuff. Then tick him off and pass him a piece of paper and say it is a prenupt!
Im sorry, but if your husband is being like that, then he obviously doesnt have the faith in the marriage to last long enough to say "whats yours is mine, and whats mine is yours!".
Talk to him and figure that crap out.
2006-06-08 19:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless we are looking back in history into the era where SLAVERY existed, then "I don't think so"!!! You may have a problem to get HIM to see that, but, you surely do have to handle that with him! It's not about ownership in a relationship - it's about SHARING your life with someone! Sharing doesn't mean OWNING!
Get him to see the difference!
Good luck here!
2006-06-08 19:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are not satisfied with this and that a marriage is about two people being equal. If this does not work then agree on your things belonging to you and his things belonging to him.
2006-06-08 19:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband says that too, but he's just joking. don't worry, if you're married it's called community property and it's half yours and half his. don't let it bother you he's just trying to be the boss. just let him keep thinking that when you know better. all or at least most men think they are the in charge of their wives, but really we women are lol. you just have to play your cards right!
2006-06-08 19:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping for yourself and then hand him the credit card bills. Then tell him you just love sharing with him!
2006-06-08 19:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by lorimtx2204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In divorce court...its the other way around....50% of what is his will be YOURS and 100% of what is yours is YOURS....you get the gold mine he gets the shaft...LOL
2006-06-08 19:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋