shes, smart, cute, athletic, and i'm athletic, and smart i've nvr realy talked to her b4 the last day of school, but it seemed like we really connected. what do i do?
2006-06-08 12:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by redreturns31 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm all most in the same situation as you man. What you do is get a good trusting friend who knows her to talk to her and get her to go to the movies and have your friend tell her I'm inviting one of my friends and your friend introduces you 2 and you talk to her and enjoy the movie oh and make sure you buy her and your friend everything yo guys desire at the movies Hey man if you really like her you have to be willing to spend so money and there you go at school your friend could be talking to her and you just go up to your friend say like hey man whats up and she's right there tell her I really had a great time at the movies last night and she will say something and you 2 start talking and later on you just all ways talk to her in the hallways and say hi and just talk be nice it will take some time but make sure she can trust you and help her out all the time and in as little as a month you can ask her out she probably will say yes try it it should work Even though it takes time.
2006-06-08 12:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, if you are 14, i say you are still to young, and you should work on being her friend for the next year, then pursue it.
Relationships at 14 are just friends who kiss on the lips for a split second, hold hands and hug briefly before getting on the school bus!
Not a real relationship. You dont understand the real formalities of a relationship, and i can GUARANTEE it will not work out the way you are planning in your head.
High school will happen. More guys, and the desire to fit in will kick in. One of you will be friends with someone who doesnt like the other, and you will break up because you want to keep your "cool" look.
Dont worry about it. Be friends, then work on it when you get to the higher grades.
It is 14yr olds that are so comsumed with societies pressures to have a boyfriend/girlfriend that end up as baby mommies and daddies.
Grow up a bit, then try!
2006-06-08 19:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything, become friends with her and get to know her. If you think she's right for you ask her out, and if not, then you still have a new friend. At least stay in touch with her over the summer if you expect any sort of relationship at all.
2006-06-08 19:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 14 go out play sports have fun you dont need a girfriend
but u can make friends with them to get to know them .u can aks them to the cinema and see how ye get on and if u thing it went ok ask her to go again if she says yes the next time just ask her out if she says no well u know she is not to kean so u can try someone else later hope i helped
2006-06-08 19:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by ryan22ie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friendly. Be casual. It's okay to say "Hey, this is kindof wierd, but I want to let you know that I kindof like you. Do you wanna hang out sometime?"
2006-06-08 19:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by dasielady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 years old she is probably more in the mood for adding to her and your friends and road dog type stuff its a lot less stressful being kids and kicking it
2006-06-08 19:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by tallmuny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go up to her and talk to her
and get her sn or something like that so you guys can keep in touch during the summer
2006-06-08 19:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and talk to her. See if she wants to go out with you, like a movie. If she likes you she will go out with you, if not there are other girls out there. Just do not act like you are desperate, girls hate that.
2006-06-08 19:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny Transplant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until you see her again and ask her if it would be ok if you called her sometime then you could get to know her better and then after a while you could ask her to be your girlfriend good luck!!
2006-06-08 19:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by *steelers* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god im 12 and i have had like 23898096 b/f just hang out then make out it is not that hard :)
2006-06-08 19:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋