ok well all my friends want me to go out with this kid cody... i dont like him i dont know why i mean hes nice and sweet but i dont know what to say to him or my friends without them getting upset from what i understand he thinks about me a lot what should i say to him without hurtin his feelings? it gets kinda annoying listening to them all day
2006-06-08 12:31:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy one....don't go out with someone because your friends want you to. As far as what you have to tell him, simply, you're not interested. And if all your friends think he's so cool, then, let them go out with him.
2006-06-08 12:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, your friends shouldn't be pressuring you into a relationship you don't want to have. Tell them upfront that it isn't their business at all and that's the end of it. Then, if you don't like Cody, I'm sorry for him, you must be a very nice person if you care so much not to hurt his feelings, but then you'd be leading him on or putting yourself into an uncomfortable relationship for you. Just pretend as if you aren't aware he likes you and just continue being his friend. If he tries to make a move or something, just tell him you see him as a friend and you're flattered he likes you but the relationship wouldn't be right for you. Remember, honesty is the way to go and better be true than pretend to feel something that isn't there for the sake of others!
2006-06-08 19:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Emunatishleima! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has talked to your friends about liking you and they are trying to help him connect. Tell your friends that he is nice and you would not mind being friends with him but let the going out thing alone. NOT INTERESTED. Loud and clear!
2006-06-08 19:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do whats best for you, dont worry about what your friends think. Be nice to him, someones bound to break your heart someday and you would want them to let you down easy, right? Just be honest with him and with your friends.
2006-06-08 19:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be compatible with someone in every measurable way, but if your pheromones are not compatible, it isn't going to work out. Some people are simply not meant to be together because their body chemistry is different. One who is in tune with her body will know it just by smelling the other person. Regardless of how good he smells, your body knows when he isn't compatible.
2006-06-08 19:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Zephram Stark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't care what your friends think just tell them you don't like him. Tell this cody guy that you just arn't interested his feelings will be hurt but thats just part of life he will get over it!!
2006-06-08 19:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Stephy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, if it was meant to be it would happen. If you are not interested I'm sure he will get the hint. Dont let friends pressure you into anything or anybody.
2006-06-08 19:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you dont feel the same way about him how he feels for you. And they should stop trying to force him onto you.
2006-06-08 19:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this happen at my school, now you have to be less scared of hurting others feelings, because they have to learn to bounce back. So I suggest to just tell them that you don't feel attracted to him at this moment.
2006-06-08 19:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by redreturns31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you're not interested. Assert yourself. Don't let peer pressure EVER get the better of you and what YOU want.
2006-06-08 19:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by Bigfoot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋