Who in here really loves their bf/gf. And, if you say love you to him/her every so often, do you really mean it, or, understand its extend and meaning?
2006-06-08 12:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well hopefully people mean what they say...but I guess that would be a perfect world. I think that saying things is okay but its more about your actions. I think that love takes time and when you are older its becomes more clearer.
2006-06-08 12:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by luvhurts004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes-I love my husband very much. Having said that about MY life, I can say that love and commitment means different things to different people; which is why it is so difficult sometimes, for people to reach an agreement because each has to reconcile their views with the others. And in day to day life, feelings can go up and down, depending on what's happening. But with love - especially if it's on more than one level, it persists through good times and bad.
Hope this helped.
2006-06-08 12:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it when I really mean it. I can't even get the word "love" out if I don't love the person. I don't *** w/ the word. And the guy's I been with only say it when they realize they do love me, too. How do I know? B/c at some point, they do stop saying it, which is clear enough from when it was real and when it was gone.
2006-06-08 12:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't love and don't say it. We do get along great. 7 years now. Maybe it is love. I wait another 7 maybe then I know for sure. Doesn't have to be love anyway. Too many people worry about whether they are in love or not instead of just doing it. To me love is not a noun. It is a verb. Say it by showing it.
2006-06-08 12:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bought her a diamond pendent that is more than i make in a month just to tell her that i am serious.. she spent the night next to me praying for my health in the hospital bed.. i went against everyone i know -my parents, my sis, my friends- and everyone is angery at me for choosing someone who is not exactly socially suitable.. and my friends are tired of hearing me "i love her" again n again
but everday i call and say i love you 20x a call.. it bring me closer to.. "will u marry me?"..
that's what "i love u" should mean.. i promise for a future.. not just a moment that guys can get from porn..
a future
2006-06-08 12:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i say it, i truly mean it, cause i wouldnt like it if someone told me that they loved me, but they really didnt mean it. If i didnt mean it, i would have never said it.
2006-06-08 12:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ive never said it, and i dont like it when they do, last time she did, she broke up with me a few days after, that keeps happening...
2006-06-08 13:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say it only because i mean it
2006-06-08 12:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by riyan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS A WIN/LOSE (50/50) SITUATION .SOMETIMES U MEAN IT, SOMETIMES U DONT, THATS JUST HOW IT IS
2006-06-08 12:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by haianda2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to say it cuz he would say it and i'd feel obligated, but sometimes i meant it.
2006-06-08 12:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋