2006-06-08 11:57:45 · 39 answers · asked by freedom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have agreed on it then please do not just rush into penetration b4 she is ready. do some really good foreplay including oral sex so that she relax then get into her gently start it slowly and listen to her response. its better to break her virginity and climax her at the same time. trust me i know
2006-06-08 12:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't going to answer this because most if not all of the advice you've gotten so far is good. Yes, I changed my mind and decided to add my two cents.
Your girlfriend has her reasons why she's still a virgin and not one here knows what they are. So I suggest you talk to her about it and be nice. Don't bug her too much though, it might tick her off (it would me, then again I am hot-head who just likes things done in my own time).
"Abercrombie" has the right idea. When she is ready she will come to you. So just be gentle if and when that time comes around.
One more thing if she doesn't have sex with you it doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. All it means is that she wasn't ready.
I didn't sleep with my first boyfriend and I haven't slept with my second. My current boyfriend asked about it once and I explained my reasons, since then he hasn't asked me again. We have both found ways of enjoying ourselves which have nothing to do with sex. For us it works (almost 2yrs). It may not for you but if you really care about each other I say it's worth a shot.
Good luck
2006-06-08 12:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways of pressuring her into giving it up. If you use any of them, you're an asshole, and hopefully you'll feel like one for the rest of your life.
What's left after that? Well, you could leave her and go for a girlfriend who will. There's nothing morally wrong with that, as long as your nice about leaving her.
If it's her you want, though (or you think you can't have anyone else), then patience is called for. Try talking to her openly about your feelings. But don't pressure her. See my first point.
The first time is always really important for a girl, no matter what they say. Concentrate on giving her a really wonderful, special first time. Part of that is making sure the situation is right. But a big part is proving to her that you're a special guy.
2006-06-08 14:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by blearyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do understand pushing is not an option. So if you aren't in it for the long run then you better get out now. Your virginity should go to the one you love and care about and wanna spend the rest of your life with, so if she needs time you should respect that.
2006-06-08 12:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a virgin don't push her or force her into doing it. Alot of guys use it againts you "well don't you love me?" Yeah we may really loev you, but sometimes that's just like something special that a girl has to be reeallyy sure about who she chooses to be her first. Respect her decision. That's the best you can do. And please don't go around looking for another girl who will give it to you!!!
2006-06-08 12:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Ale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her no matter what , if you love her , that she is worth the wait ....Don't rush her , allow it to happen when she is ready. A lot of guys say the word "love" just to get what they are after....a girls virginity , is special to her , and she will always remember the guy she lost it to.Forever !
2006-06-08 12:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by jacks_girl618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a problem with the fact that she is a virgin, you should not be with her. You should do nothing if you really love her.
2006-06-08 12:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You have to be patient. It is her decision not yours. If she is cool with it, then go ahead and be gentle. My boyfriend isn't a virgin and i am, but he isn't rushing me either. If he did i probably wouldn't be with him. IF you put pressure on her she will get nervous and or angry and break up with you. ANd if sex is all you want then you should just not be with her. She will let you know when she wants to have sex with you anyways, if she thinks you are the right person. Remember don't rush, don't push, don't pressure, and be patient.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HAVE A NICE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-08 12:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, don't pressure her. if she's not ready, then don't push her. and don't bring it up so much, that'll just make you look like a horny little boy. until she's ready, i guess you'll have to stick to personal lubricant and some dirty pictures.
normally, i don't condone premarital sex or sex out of wedlock, but i can't stop you. just make sure that her first time is enjoyable.
2006-06-08 12:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by mirrorofrapture329 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure she is of legal age. Use birth control, and medication's that do NOT allow disease to be transferred. Actually, don't have sex with her unless you have a house you are willing to will to her. It is not worth it........Use your head (not the head between your legs).
Peace, Gizz
2006-06-08 12:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by gallgizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋