for the love of G0D ......... What do i do ?

Question

i really really really like this girl, i think i love her
and she only thinks of me as a friend (she says)
although we've complimented each other for about 2-3 hours back and forth a couple times ....... and she said she wanted to play some kissing game with me.... ( we each get to kiss 1 body part on each other)
i cant stop thinking about how much i want her, and just about her....
its killing me that we're not together
i asked her out and she said shes busy.....
what do i do ??????

Answer 1

flirt with her, and ask her out again

Answer 2

Drop her like you never knew her to begin with. Right now she's playing you like a fiddle. she don't want to get rid of you because you're really into her and she knows that and it helps her self esteam. If you let things stay the way they are you will never have a chance unless for some reason you become rich. Tell her that it drives you nuts to be around her and not be with her and that friends is just not good enough. Then wait at least 10 days and if she don't change her mind and you would rather be her little play thingy call and apologize. That is the only chance you have at being more than her pet though

Answer 3

straight up, she's playing with u, wake up and smell the coffee. I get it okay, i've been there, u dig the girl a LOT, but u know, when u demonstrate it to her, it's like handing her ur .... u know what. When u give her that power, she is most certainly not gonna see you as a potential partner, just a wussy like everyone else. The more eager u are to hook up to her the more she will toy with u and stay away. So bail, cause there is no other option!, u know who cares theres plenty more where that came from!.

Answer 4

Sounds like she wants to see how a kiss and touching each other would feel. Trust me unless you either want your heart broken or you don't want to deal with the responsibilities that sex brings, just be her friend. If you do decide to play her game, keep yourself safe.
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Answer 5

Keep on being really nice and never push her into something she doesn't want to do. I love when a guy surprises me. Always be there for her during the times she really needs you. Love takes time do little thing and believe me she will notice!

Answer 6

look the only thing you can do is wait for her and well honeslty she does thinks as you as a friend, but if you asked her out and she said she was busy then go out into the world and go on a date and see what she does if she does get jealous then yeah maybe she realizes that she loves you too...

good luck!

Answer 7

sounds like she's just playing around she sounds young and doesn't want to be tyed down to anything lovey dovey so give her room and play it cool and ask out her friends instead. If she wonders why tell her she was yor first choice but she never got back to you- don't do her friends though that could burn some bridges

Answer 8

Tell her that you want to be more than friends, or whereever she wants to start. If she says that she's busy, say ok, another time. And go hang out with another girl... that will make her realize that she likes you.

Answer 9

Well... kissing games does not sound like just a friend to me.

Answer 10

She seems kind of shifty. I think you should find some other girl, but if you must have her then just ask her out again some other time.

Answer 11

stop telling her that, she got the point. she might be interested in you, but she knows (or assumes) you'll always be there for when she's ready. it may be hard, but dropping the subject completely (even when she is fishing for affection) should get her thinking that you won't be around forever waiting for her.